i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controversial

[thebanned1]

ok before i start i think some people are maybe going to take offence to this and this is not my goal, no doubt in my mind this is going to upset some people but again this is not the outcome i,m seeking

i guess i should jump straight in and i,m looking for a proper discussion on this rather than a blazing argument

ok its about the jib forum, every time i come here ( several times a day ) the first thing i notice is the jibs forum and every time i see it i,m reminded of jibs, this upsets me, ok i didnt know him as well as u guys did but personally i think it could be time to "let it go"

i,m not sure of how to explain my feelings about this but its been several years since jibs departed from us and if we keep reminding ourselves about it then it may have a detrimental effect on our health also, i dont need a forum popping up every time i come here to remind me of steve ( just my personal feelings )... this is the part i think is going to hurt people and this is not my outcome and again i dont really wanna let this go into a blazing argument and me being the devil child etc etc

i was just brought up in the way of thinking that if u have to get over something u have to let it go


sorry guys

[Corven]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

imo the 'jib forum' is more of a memorial of Steve than not being able to let go of the fact that he is not here with us anymore ... from my understanding he meant a lot as a person and as a friend and not just contributor to the forum to quite a few of the older members

i barely knew him but it does remind me of the forum when it was more fun/nonsense than the occasional name calling that we see these days

[thebanned1]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

i understand this fully but do u not think that by reminding ourselves he's no longer with us it gets some people down ?

[Garrick]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

does the forum really do detrimental damage to your health? do you know anyone else its causing this? i'm not trying to argue either, but i don't feel like this should be addressed in the public forum where the majority of the people didn't know steve (not sure how to get around that though, if this was really bugging you THAT badly).

keep in mind that there are shitloads of things all over the world to remind us of people that have passed. i don't see what's wrong with leaving up a memorial, like corven said, for one of our original members that helped make MS what it has been all these years.

my personal emotions are smiles when i think about steve, whether it be seeing the forum or reminiscing on all the fond memories i had with him.

RIP brotha!

[Corven]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

i understand this fully but do u not think that by reminding ourselves he's no longer with us it gets some people down ?

i agree with u that it probably has that effect to a few but its different how every individual deals with it like any other loss .. like i said previously personally i see it as a memorial to Steve and it reminds me of [MS] as a young and more fun forum

[feather]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

I'd think enough time has past that we can all look at the forum and remember Steve with fondness.

thebanned1, if it helps, you can subscribe to the forums you visit most, and bookmark UserCP as your MS page so you don't have to visit the forum index and see Steve's sub-forum every visit.

[Kat]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

[Corven]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

^ why are u a milkshake and u better be chocolate flavored

[Kat]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

^ why are u a milkshake and u better be chocolate flavored

no clue really
every time i mention my title something happens, this is my third title i think and i think its best if i shut up about it, learned my lesson the last time

[picklemonkey]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

[chunky]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

Yeah I hid it a while back.

[thebanned1]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

some might see that as offensive

[Kat]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

some might see that as offensive

[floridaorange]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

[floridaorange]

Re: i,v had something on my mind for quite sometime and this is going to be controver

I tended to agree with you a few years ago since I didn't know Steve it just seemed like a bummer. But now it is kind of a nice memorial, and the better I've gotten to know Steve's friends on MS the more I understand and respect their memorial to their friend, if that makes sense?