I think he said that to her because he didn't want their connection (friendship) to end & she probably felt ambivalent about it, but obviously it was going to end because it was only ever meant to be brief while they were in Tokyo & while both characters were feeling lost in their lives with their significant others.
To me, it was a sweet goodbye with reassurance because neither really wanted to contemplate never seeing the other again, but that's exactly what was going to happen. It really was goodbye; they just couldn't admit it to themselves. Sweet goodbyes with kisses & reassurances are better than those when the two just drift out of each other's lives -i.e., easier to handle. That's my take. (Reportedly, Johannson was not told he was going to be kissing on her. lol) And the line he whispers was unscripted. I think that made it work out well; it seemed more real to me than the whole premise of the film.
And she was only 17 when she accepted the role. The movie was written with Murray in mind. I didn't find it that entertaining of a film myself. Although, I typically enjoy May/December romance films. This one didn't have romance in it. Right? (I can't recall.) But there was attraction, jealousy.. all the makings of an affair, it just didn't happen.
It's been a long time since I saw Before Sunrise or Before Sunset, and never saw Before Midnight. (But at least those two characters were plausible, unlike in Lost In Translation, imo). Maybe it's the long distance relationship quandary that makes these story lines never really work out? Proximity is super important. I've read it's one of the biggest aspects of things working out or not. Maybe sometimes things are special for two people secondarily because one party is away from their home.... adds a vulnerability factor not normally present?
I had a may/dec romance once, it was incredibly complicated & exciting, also awkward and embarrassing because I was so young. I'm grateful for it though because I can live knowing I know what it's like.... it's cool. All experiences just help you define aspects of your real life partner that you want/don't want.
To me, it was a sweet goodbye with reassurance because neither really wanted to contemplate never seeing the other again, but that's exactly what was going to happen. It really was goodbye; they just couldn't admit it to themselves. Sweet goodbyes with kisses & reassurances are better than those when the two just drift out of each other's lives -i.e., easier to handle. That's my take. (Reportedly, Johannson was not told he was going to be kissing on her. lol) And the line he whispers was unscripted. I think that made it work out well; it seemed more real to me than the whole premise of the film.
And she was only 17 when she accepted the role. The movie was written with Murray in mind. I didn't find it that entertaining of a film myself. Although, I typically enjoy May/December romance films. This one didn't have romance in it. Right? (I can't recall.) But there was attraction, jealousy.. all the makings of an affair, it just didn't happen.
It's been a long time since I saw Before Sunrise or Before Sunset, and never saw Before Midnight. (But at least those two characters were plausible, unlike in Lost In Translation, imo). Maybe it's the long distance relationship quandary that makes these story lines never really work out? Proximity is super important. I've read it's one of the biggest aspects of things working out or not. Maybe sometimes things are special for two people secondarily because one party is away from their home.... adds a vulnerability factor not normally present?
I had a may/dec romance once, it was incredibly complicated & exciting, also awkward and embarrassing because I was so young. I'm grateful for it though because I can live knowing I know what it's like.... it's cool. All experiences just help you define aspects of your real life partner that you want/don't want.
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