Fuck You James Zabiela

[brakada]

I prefer partying on my own. You have nothing to worry about but yourself (even this can be hard enough on certain occassions :wink: )and you can let yourself loose. I think almost all the events which I visited with a girlfriend were a lot worse than when I was partying on my own. I mean, there can be certain exceptions, but still I would never take a girlfriend with me to go listen to my favourite DJ...

[groffhibbitz]

that's true, the times I have gone out by myself, I had a great time. I didn't have to cater to anyone elses needs.

[chloe harris]

Re:: Fuck You James Zabiela

sorry to hear that ghostridden. definately sounds like you did all you could.. apologies for the insensitivity.

hopefully next time will be better.

[brakada]

that's true, the times I have gone out by myself, I had a great time. I didn't have to cater to anyone elses needs.

My point exactly... Partners (male or female) need attention. There are very few couples who can party together without worryying about each other (or fighting/arguing). At least to my knowledge and expirience. It's not that you should go everywhere on your own, but only when you really want to have fun, leave her behind... :wink:

[Jibgolly]

^^
bro, there comes a time when a woman has to go on her own and take care of her business.
not to sound insensitive, but if my girl were trying to make me leave a show for my fav act/dj for that, i'd have to tell her NO.

that's a wee bit insensitive isn't it?

why not come to a common ground instead of making her out to be the bad guy.

i knew that would roust your feathers. im not a bad guy. but if my girl asked me to leave a digweed party for tampons, i'd have to say: "FUCK NO baby, you know where the store is."

if that makes me an asshole, then so be it.
but here's something to think about:

if i were trying to make you leave a party because i needed to buy some film, or smoke a joint, or whateverthefuck, would you happily leave with me? i doubt it. we're all adults here and can take care of our most personal of personal hygiene needs ALONE.

it would take a lot more than a need for tampons to get me to leave a digweed party.

[HoneyBearKelly]

I prefer partying on my own. You have nothing to worry about but yourself (even this can be hard enough on certain occassions :wink: )and you can let yourself loose. I think almost all the events which I visited with a girlfriend were a lot worse than when I was partying on my own. I mean, there can be certain exceptions, but still I would never take a girlfriend with me to go listen to my favourite DJ...

I can only quote Joe Jackson..."Don't you know that it's different for girls"

People look at me strange if I just go to the movies alone. If me or pretty much any other woman walks into a night club alone people would think she's a slag.

[Oliver Kay]

Re:: Fuck You James Zabiela

My way of thinking: your girlfriend doesn't deserve to be there with you, groffhibbitz.
I'm a heavy smoker, so I always have a spare pack of cigarettes and a spare lighter in my bag (every morning, leaving home, I put a new pack in my bag).
I'm a precaution taker, so I always have a bill (equivalent to 30$) hiden somewhere in my clouths.
And so on ...
Isn't it reasonably fair that the "need for tampons" will come at previsible time? Isn't it normal that a girl should have them handy?
For me, "the need" that your girlfriend had is a fake one. If you were important to her, she would act otherwise. Next time go alone, bro.
Returning to the principal reason of this post:
JZ is GREAT, and I say it after the fabulous liveset he gave at Kristal@Bucharest on April, that for me puts him on the top10.

[Localizer]

Re:: Fuck You James Zabiela

i would have to say a middle ground would be...

let's just sit here (where the music is) and chill out together. get some water... and just mellow into the sounds.

hey, that sound fine to me, in fact, I would have loved to sit and chill out. I am always for a middle groud, but she refused to even talk to me to tell me what was the matter, and wouldn't budge for over an hour, and before that, I got up to go to the bathroom and she just moved somewhere else and didn't come back for 20 minutes(to the place she was when I went to the bathroom).. Then she told be someone put something in her drink (which I knew was impossible since I sat next to her the entire time she was drinking, and she had already told me her friend had put a pill in her mouth. All this after her promising never to take any pills again (she gets kind of mean when she does)).

All of this, and it got even worse later (trust me)!! All that and she doesn't even remember any of it.

Yea, I somehow don't feel I was being insensitive.

Sorry for the rant. Also, nice to see you Majik, sorry we couldn't talk more!

hey man, in all honesty, if she pulled that shit with you at the club...ditch her....you can do better than her...

[chloe harris]

Re:: Fuck You James Zabiela

hahahhahahhahahhahahaha.

haha. haha. ok. hahha.

[groffhibbitz]

Re:: Fuck You James Zabiela

hahahhahahhahahhahahaha.

haha. haha. ok. hahha.

what's so funny?

[BeachBum]

^^
bro, there comes a time when a woman has to go on her own and take care of her business.
not to sound insensitive, but if my girl were trying to make me leave a show for my fav act/dj for that, i'd have to tell her NO.

that's a wee bit insensitive isn't it?

why not come to a common ground instead of making her out to be the bad guy.

not to be too much of a guy but, where is the middle ground on that one? Walk her to the gate and wave?

Come on Jib, I would be willing to bet whatever caused her to puke was your idea to buy

[asdf_admin]

eww.

FIRE! FIRE! FIRE!

[brakada]

I can only quote Joe Jackson..."Don't you know that it's different for girls"

Joe Jackson? Yesssss. Who he?

:wink:

People look at me strange if I just go to the movies alone. If me or pretty much any other woman walks into a night club alone people would think she's a slag.

Well, that's what friends are for. It's not like you have to do everything with the boyfriend/girlfriend. I generally don't like going anywhere by myself...or if I do, I know I'll probably meet some friends there eventually. And if I would go to a party with my girlfriend, I would go with some friends. It would be more like a "each man/woman for himself" kind of thing, (especially if someone is behavin' bitchy). You come together, and you go together.

But if you by any chance come to Slovenia, I promise to go to the movies or clubbing with you... as a friend. :wink:

[esef]

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I may not have seen JZ cause of gimpness last night, but I had a dam good shredded beef taco....i hate you esef <3

well heal up mate! we'll have to have a MS meet up at a forthcoming show...

[esef]

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OHHHH noooo why fuck you???he is a dj!not the bets,buthe is a good dj