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  • Life on Other Planets AKA Johns
    Are you Kidding me??
    • Oct 2005
    • 3087

    What To Do??

    Hey all i am in a crisis at he moment. i will try keeping this short and sweet. here goes..
    Ok u c i am really into this girl i work with. wehave been working for bout 4 years together and my feelings for her started bout a year into our friendship. we are very much alike and i always will always care for her. We have had our share of fights and arguments at work etcbut the reasons are something i can't really explain right now cause its gonna take so long.
    i have wanted to be with her for awhile and a couple years ago (can't remember exactly when) she was with a friend of mine and i witness this and i was shattered and yes i did get jealous. ever since i have awlays wanted to tell her my feelings for her but i can't cause of 2 major reasons. Firstly she is Married and secondly we work together. Her husband is an ok guy. i just wish sometimes that she was not his but mine. At the sart of this year she told me she is having a BABY. so that means she is gonna be finishing work in the next few months.
    Should i tell her now or on her last shift ??our friendship was really good until that kissing incident cause it's been on my mind for a good part of 3 years. I have always taken the blame for everything that would go wrong in our arguments etc and would always give her what she needs. i just feel that these days she might think that i will always be there for her so it's ok to fuck around at work etc. i really do care for her and when i do tell her if iever do i want to make sure i am telling her not to cause trouble with her relationship. i could go on but do u guys think i should say something or not.

  • Troklo
    Platinum Poster
    • Jun 2004
    • 2012

    #2
    Re: What To Do??



    Read that very very carfully you might find some answers your looking for.
    Quiero brincar al agua para caer al cielo

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    • Dzone
      Platinum Poster
      • Jul 2004
      • 1978

      #3
      Re: What To Do??

      Love your bird and she will FUCK you, Fuck your bird and she will LOVE you.
      ^^What dosen't Kill you make you stronger ^^

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      • AndyH
        Platinum Poster
        • May 2005
        • 1786

        #4
        Re: What To Do??

        You should have started this off with 'Dear Digweed'... lol

        If you tell her at least you will know once and for all, and if ur going to do it on her last day I reckon. Could get very awkward at work otherwise.

        As for whether to tell her or not, only u can make that call. If she blows you out then I cant see you carrying on being friends once the baby comes along, but if u dont then u will always be wondering..

        Good luck mate..
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        • batica
          Getting warmed up
          • Oct 2005
          • 65

          #5
          Re: What To Do??

          married - that's a big No!

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          • picklemonkey
            Double hoodie beer monster
            • Jun 2004
            • 15373

            #6
            Re: What To Do??

            don't tell her anything. she's married and has a child. don't make shit difficult between you two, because she has started her life and is love with someone else... it's just not going to happen bro. find someone else. it'll be easier to forget about her once she quits.

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            • Kamal
              Administrator
              • May 2002
              • 28835

              #7
              Re: What To Do??

              so you're in love with a married woman who's expecting a child AND is with your friend (unless he's not the husband) ..... if all of that is true... 2 words mate.... REALITY CHECK

              What a woman to fall in love with and shatter your heart ....
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              • rewing3
                I really don't care
                • Jun 2004
                • 5504

                #8
                Re: What To Do??

                I agree with pickle. Just let it go.
                Common Sense is not Common at all.

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                • peloquin
                  Till I Come!
                  • Jun 2004
                  • 8643

                  #9
                  Re: What To Do??

                  dont tell her... she is married and having a kid... its better to just let this one go imo. plenty of fish in the sea and all that jazz

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                  • peloquin
                    Till I Come!
                    • Jun 2004
                    • 8643

                    #10
                    Re: What To Do??

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                    • DJJEFFJONES
                      Platinum Poster
                      • Nov 2005
                      • 2110

                      #11
                      Re: What To Do??

                      ^^^ Agreed! You have no business in messing with an expecting mother and let alone a married one! That has drama writen all over it!

                      You have no idea what you would be stepping into!
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                      • Mr.Big
                        Platinum Poster
                        • Nov 2004
                        • 1390

                        #12
                        Re: What To Do??

                        ur just going to have to leave it man.. Maybe if its too much consider moving jobs and getting her out of ur life.

                        theres plenty more fish in the sea regardless of how u two get on.
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                        Pimps up Hoes down.

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                        • tiddles
                          Encryption, Jr.
                          • Jun 2004
                          • 6861

                          #13
                          Re: What To Do??

                          put a dent in her baby's head

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                          • peloquin
                            Till I Come!
                            • Jun 2004
                            • 8643

                            #14
                            Re: What To Do??

                            ^that what happened to you tiddles?

                            explains quite a bit actually...

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                            • tiddles
                              Encryption, Jr.
                              • Jun 2004
                              • 6861

                              #15
                              Re: What To Do??

                              could be...

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