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Hey all saw a post awhile ago and thought i would share my own experience with my mates. U see i have had alot of friends in the past and still do. With the work i do i do meet alot of new people everyday and i don't have a problem talking to people. Anyway as i get older i have lost a few mates through marriage, growing apart etc. My problem is this. I really love going out to clubs and all. But the only clubs i have found myself going to is shitty commercial clubs with shitty commerical music where everyone there's objective is to get laid (at least i feel that is what they are there for). which is not a bad thing don't get me wrong but i am sick of it.
Now when any dj's come to melbourne i find it a real struggle going to see them as most of the people i hang out with are not into the same music i like and don't understand the whole dance culture and all (even though i have tried and tried to explain it to them). They all say it all sounds the same and everyone that goes to these places are on drugs. Ok i will admit a fari few people are on drugs and all but i try expaain to them that going to a pub and having alot of drinks and getting drunk is like a drug cause anything that alters your mind from the norm is like a drug am i correct??
Anyway as i said before i struggle to go see these dj's is cause no one would go with me and i end up not going cause i would feel like a loser going by myself, although i did once 2 years ago to see danny howells. i did have a blast and was hoping to meet new people and all but it did not work out that way and i felt a bit standoffish. anyway what do u guys suggest i do?? do i cut ties with some people cause i do everything they say and go where they want ( i know this might sound childish), or should i go by myself to see these dj's etc and try meet new people?? i don't know how to meet new people in a club if i would go by myself. How should i apporach it?? what do i say to people?? What would be your reation if someone new came and said they were here by themself ?? And does this sortta stuff happen to anyone else either now or in the past and how did u deal with it??
Chris fortier is coming to melbourne on the 27 october and i would really like to go and have asked people butpeople either can't be fucked or have Uni exams etc. so do i go?? i am gonna see sasha and digweed in november with a couple guy's but i really would love to see chris aswell. Any suggest would be greatly appericated. Thanks in advance
Now when any dj's come to melbourne i find it a real struggle going to see them as most of the people i hang out with are not into the same music i like and don't understand the whole dance culture and all (even though i have tried and tried to explain it to them). They all say it all sounds the same and everyone that goes to these places are on drugs. Ok i will admit a fari few people are on drugs and all but i try expaain to them that going to a pub and having alot of drinks and getting drunk is like a drug cause anything that alters your mind from the norm is like a drug am i correct??
Anyway as i said before i struggle to go see these dj's is cause no one would go with me and i end up not going cause i would feel like a loser going by myself, although i did once 2 years ago to see danny howells. i did have a blast and was hoping to meet new people and all but it did not work out that way and i felt a bit standoffish. anyway what do u guys suggest i do?? do i cut ties with some people cause i do everything they say and go where they want ( i know this might sound childish), or should i go by myself to see these dj's etc and try meet new people?? i don't know how to meet new people in a club if i would go by myself. How should i apporach it?? what do i say to people?? What would be your reation if someone new came and said they were here by themself ?? And does this sortta stuff happen to anyone else either now or in the past and how did u deal with it??
Chris fortier is coming to melbourne on the 27 october and i would really like to go and have asked people butpeople either can't be fucked or have Uni exams etc. so do i go?? i am gonna see sasha and digweed in november with a couple guy's but i really would love to see chris aswell. Any suggest would be greatly appericated. Thanks in advance
. I do get shy alot though especially when i don't know the person which makes it difficult i guess. i suppose i have to step out of my comfort zone now and again. Love ya all 
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