Why is it...

[speciale]

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^^^ so are you saying if a guy or girl flirt while in a serious relationship something is missing or there is doubt?

if it is normal everyday flirting that is one thing, but it sounds like there was one incident that went over the top.

if it is the same as the person has been when you met them, then it is normal (obviosuly not telling a chick she is hot and wanting to hook up., that is just being an ass), but if it has changed in the recent time, then a flag would be raised.

kinky does make a good point too that when you are with someone right, you don't flirt yet he flirts with Katiec all the time, however it is internet and we all know it is just messing around.

[DIDI]

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Flirting is the ultimate safe sex, makes you feel good without hurting anyone, and it's great fun!! But it shouldn't go as far as that line.

[DancingQueen]

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lol good point and Chris didn't do anything per say, besides flirting now and then on MSN with girls....I guess in my round-about way, I was seeing if stuff like that was normal. My example never happened it was hypothetical only.....I am just trying to determine the line I guess

[speciale]

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hey Karen, don't you think it is about time to change your avatar?


back on topic, if things are right, it is something you can talk to the significant other about, but make sure you are not quilty of flirting as well

[KinKyJ]

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^^^ between kat & me it's only cockteasing & titty twsting

[speciale]

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^^^ between kat & me it's only cockteasing & titty twsting

dude, the only titty twisting I can see you doing is with your GF. I mean come on. hello, real boobs rock. jeesh

[Garrick]

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he could be doing it simply because he knows it annoys you. obviously you're disgruntled and he knows its only going to make you jealous. guys AS WELL AS girls do it all the time. it's called playing games (i know you know that).

why don't you try giving him a taste of his own med and see what happens... if he can do it, you should be able to as well. what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

[speciale]

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he could be doing it simply because he knows it annoys you. obviously you're disgruntled and he knows its only going to make you jealous. guys AS WELL AS girls do it all the time. it's called playing games (i know you know that).

why don't you try giving him a taste of his own med and see what happens... if he can do it, you should be able to as well. what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

those kind of games are better not to be played. IMO. let them play with someone else

[Garrick]

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true that... after a certain time, the games should stop. unless you are insecure with yourself or your relationship.

[geoffgulley]

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Flirting when you're single is a natural thing. Kinda testing the waters of interest... playing a little cat and mouse. There's nothing cool about flirting with someone when you're in a "committed" relationship... period. It's OK if someone who's single flirts with you but if you return it then obviously you're not serious about your relationship... my two cents.

[KinKyJ]

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he could be doing it simply because he knows it annoys you. obviously you're disgruntled and he knows its only going to make you

warm, warmer, DISCO

[AndyH]

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but since I hooked up with Erzina I just can't bring myself to it nor do I feel the need to do it. To be honest, it even makes me sick.

You and Erzina make me sick you are so loved up! (good luck to you really )

I think the obvious reason for flirting have been covered, but I think in the case of men especially it can fufill the 'spread the seed mentality'. E.g, u work with someone good looking and try and flirt with her so if she flirts back its almost like u can think 'well i could if I wanted' (v crude description I know). Just make sure that is where it stops!

[Mr.Big]

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Ahh i think it depends on what age you are and how far your into a relationship..Its hard walking into a club/pub and not throwing the odd smile at a girl when shes walking by. I guess i dont have much faith in women anymore.. In 2006 people have less respect for relationships and that goes for women as much as blokes . A woman who flirts with you regardless if she has a boyfriend can be persuaded easily and i guess its all part of the chase.

[Kat]

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It's basicly an ego thing imo. Flirting is a way of seeking attention and confirmation of your sex appeal. You know, finding an answer to the question "Do I still have it?" "Am I still hot?"

agreed

kinky does make a good point too that when you are with someone right, you don't flirt yet he flirts with Katiec all the time, however it is internet and we all know it is just messing around.

my nick sounds interesting

true that... after a certain time, the games should stop. unless you are insecure with yourself or your relationship.

agreed again

Flirting when you're single is a natural thing. Kinda testing the waters of interest... playing a little cat and mouse. There's nothing cool about flirting with someone when you're in a "committed" relationship... period. It's OK if someone who's single flirts with you but if you return it then obviously you're not serious about your relationship... my two cents.

spot on!

damn I have nothing new to say

[DreamGirlie]

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I used to be a heavy flirter...not much anymore these days. However, I still find myself using my flirtiness to my benefit in certain situations and I will probably continue to do so.

There is a difference between lightly flirting and flirting to get a number, hang out with someone without your partner knowing, etc.

My guy and I have an agreement I am free to flirt with whatever girls I want