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Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...
Originally posted by chrissy1687
well dude what ever happened to bros before hoes? yeah drunk friends are annoying as hell, but there will be more girls to have one night stands with. plus, i think it's more annoying when i'm out with my friends and one of them slips away from the group to get laid--it's like, we all came out to have fun with each other, wth is that?
Yeah.
How about getting laid a few times Chrissy, and you'll know what it's about. Sometimes I'll drink with my friends, sometimes I'll walk into a girl that is worth going home with - real bros accept that and above all leave you to your business when you're interacting. Don't tell me you never went home with a lady while your friends were still drinking?
Worst is...they wanted to me go home with her but I was actually having a good time and relaxing and didn't see the need for it at that time - and they started acting like jerks and little schoolboys over that.
Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...
Originally posted by Yao
Yeah.
How about getting laid a few times Chrissy, and you'll know what it's about. Sometimes I'll drink with my friends, sometimes I'll walk into a girl that is worth going home with - real bros accept that and above all leave you to your business when you're interacting. Don't tell me you never went home with a lady while your friends were still drinking?
Worst is...they wanted to me go home with her but I was actually having a good time and relaxing and didn't see the need for it at that time - and they started acting like jerks and little schoolboys over that.
well before you assume that i don't get laid, you should re-read what you sounded like. my post was just a response. you failed to mention that you were having a good time with the girl and just wanted to have a good time with her (not necessarily going home with her). and plus, you can't really hate your friend, alcohol makes people act like jerks. it's a well recorded fact
Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...
Hah, you're right about that last thing mate. Btw, not seriouslt thinking you don't get laid, maybe that wasn't a nice thing to say - sorry for that. I just realy didn't agree with your statement, imo a good friend goes out with you but when one of the group is about to get his groove on, it's an unwritten rule that you don't interfere. In this cade however, I was being pushed into something I wasn't completely into and that totally ruïned any inclination I might have had towards going home with her (or her with me). The other guys that were there totally understood me when I left.
And that particular guy does indeed turn into a total jerk when he's had enough booze...among me and my friends a well recorded fact as well
Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...
Originally posted by chrissy1687
well before you assume that i don't get laid, you should re-read what you sounded like. my post was just a response. you failed to mention that you were having a good time with the girl and just wanted to have a good time with her (not necessarily going home with her). and plus, you can't really hate your friend, alcohol makes people act like jerks. it's a well recorded fact
A) I think he was refering to the idea that you don't get laid.
B) It is a very well recorded fact that alcohol makes people act like jerks. Conversely, it's a well known rule that when your friends act like dickheads by drinking alcohol, you hold blame to the friends, not to the smirnoff. Just because alcohol makes you act like a jerk does not excuse behavior.
C) The "bro's before ho's" idea presupposed that the "bro's" will act as such, regardless of the situation and circumstance. If i've got a friend who, when supplied with alcohol, acts beligerent, and cockblocks me, he's not 'my bro'. Bro's Before Ho's is a philosophical blank-out to the real context behind that saying: to excuse poor behavior. This may have worked eons ago when things like text-messaging, cell phones, and social dynamics/social rules did not exist.
I'll reiterate the idea to have a distinct group of wingmen. It's both constructive and productive in relation to the alternative. Everyone wins, even if you do strike out.
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Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...
Originally posted by 88Mariner
A) I think he was refering to the idea that you don't get laid.
B) It is a very well recorded fact that alcohol makes people act like jerks. Conversely, it's a well known rule that when your friends act like dickheads by drinking alcohol, you hold blame to the friends, not to the smirnoff. Just because alcohol makes you act like a jerk does not excuse behavior.
C) The "bro's before ho's" idea presupposed that the "bro's" will act as such, regardless of the situation and circumstance. If i've got a friend who, when supplied with alcohol, acts beligerent, and cockblocks me, he's not 'my bro'. Bro's Before Ho's is a philosophical blank-out to the real context behind that saying: to excuse poor behavior. This may have worked eons ago when things like text-messaging, cell phones, and social dynamics/social rules did not exist.
I'll reiterate the idea to have a distinct group of wingmen. It's both constructive and productive in relation to the alternative. Everyone wins, even if you do strike out.
Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...
Originally posted by 88Mariner
C) The "bro's before ho's" idea presupposed that the "bro's" will act as such, regardless of the situation and circumstance. If i've got a friend who, when supplied with alcohol, acts beligerent, and cockblocks me, he's not 'my bro'. Bro's Before Ho's is a philosophical blank-out to the real context behind that saying: to excuse poor behavior. This may have worked eons ago when things like text-messaging, cell phones, and social dynamics/social rules did not exist.
Bro's before Ho's is still a valid prinicple. But as you mention, it can't be applied regardless of situation or circumstance. Rather, it is more of a big picture principle applying across the long term rather than the immediate. I don't take it to mean that during a guys night out, I can't flirt, pursue or go home with a woman at the end of the night, rather to me it means, I don't do things like date my boys ex girlfriends, no matter how hot she is.
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Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...
Originally posted by threehills
Bro's before Ho's is still a valid prinicple. But as you mention, it can't be applied regardless of situation or circumstance. Rather, it is more of a big picture principle applying across the long term rather than the immediate. I don't take it to mean that during a guys night out, I can't flirt, pursue or go home with a woman at the end of the night, rather to me it means, I don't do things like date my boys ex girlfriends, no matter how hot she is.
I can go along with that, in the bigger picture for example I won't let any woman come in between a good friendship, but if I'm scoring (or in this case: decide not to when he wants me to), I want to be left alone or at the very least not be bothered on the subject except for a simple inquiry as to what I'm planning.
I got 2 guys with whom I sometimes go on a hunt, and that's just perfect: flirting and checking all the time, and if one of us decides to go off with a girl, then fine. Or one simply plans a date for later so we can end the night drinking together - those are the best, laying the foundations for future liaisons
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