end of a mini bender, cant sleep

**Life on Other Planets AKA Johns** · January 2, 2007, 01:40:16 AM

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Hey mate.. now you said you met her last night correct... why did you call her straight away?? wait a few days man. i know you really like her and all but even if they ask u to call etc you should wait at least 3 days. like you said you wont be leaving for 3 weeks so whats 3 days. Chick are funny bout those sorta things. i mean if a guy gave a number to a gilr and she called the next day it would not matter cause its better to get it all outta the road you know what i mean.. so yeah damn chicks

On the other hand how late did you call and how many times did you call?? if just once she could be in the shower, sleeping left her phone in her car anything man so don't sweat. give it a couple days and then try calling again. if that does not work again txt msg her and find out what the deal is and speak truthfully.. girls love guys who are honest and say whats on their chest.. tell her you are going away etc and would love to take her out etc.. speak honestly and say what you have to i bet when you do that she will def go out for a drink.

Now i am saying all this but my skills with the ladys are not crash hot but give it a go and see what other people on here think. Just my 2 cents

**sakio pod** · January 2, 2007, 01:40:59 AM

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see thats your problem, your stressing over a GIRL

don't call her anymore 2nite just tell her you wanna get together before you leave..if not fuck it

DON"T push it...........trust me,you'll me more chicks

NO STRESS NO WORRIES one thing i found out how to deal with girls....if you show that you really don't care (have no intrest) you have the ball in your court

**Life on Other Planets AKA Johns** · January 2, 2007, 01:47:57 AM

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"NO STRESS NO WORRIES one thing i found out how to deal with girls....if you show that you really don't care (have no intrest) you have the ball in your court"

Good point mate.. chicks always love the chase and games LOL

**ShawnD64** · January 2, 2007, 01:50:09 AM

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i called her once at 9:00 and left a message....shes a teacher and teachers wake up early, so she may have been in bed. i leave next friday, so i only have one weekend, but i suppose i wouldnt even take her out till thursday so i guess i couldve waited.... but i didnt, i dont like that whole 3 day thing (i hate the games w/ girls, if i like her and want to call i do, but i am not going to call her every hour either). i hate the first call and wanted to get it out of the way. i will wait for her now, i am confident, just dont want to fuck it up.

**ShawnD64** · January 2, 2007, 01:53:09 AM

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Originally posted by johns

"NO STRESS NO WORRIES one thing i found out how to deal with girls....if you show that you really don't care (have no intrest) you have the ball in your court"

Good point mate.. chicks always love the chase and games LOL

guess i shouldve waited but... oh well its done.
it was my party and i was being host and talking to most everyone here, many nice lookin girls, so i wasnt able to pay particular attention to her... and bam she pulls me aside to plant one... fuckin a man

i am usually shit with girls, so it went very well...

**sakio pod** · January 2, 2007, 01:54:25 AM

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bro thats it just wait its up to her now

does she know your leaving???? if so i'm sure she'll hit u back 2morrow

and just let her know that your leaving and u wanna get together with her before you leave

its as easy as that NO BS

**ShawnD64** · January 2, 2007, 01:58:27 AM

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Originally posted by sakio pod

bro thats it just wait its up to her now

does she know your leaving???? if so i'm sure she'll hit u back 2morrow

and just let her know that your leaving and u wanna get together with her before you leave

its as easy as that NO BS

no she doesnt know... if i dont hear from her till the weekend i will either txt or call to let her know i am leaving and want to take her out.
thanks guys

**Life on Other Planets AKA Johns** · January 2, 2007, 01:59:52 AM

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Ok wait for a couple days man.. You see girls are funny this way. If you show too much interest they tell you to fuck off, if you show little interest they come back for more, but if you keep going with little interest then forget it you will loose her. I say don't wait for her to call, wait a couple days and then if she does not get back to you call her 1 MORE TIME THATS IT. If she does not answer her phone then do what i said and be honest with your text and tell her how you do want to take her out and all. Be honest man and like sakio pod said if it does not work so be it. There will be alot of girls for ya i am sure mate. Just be confident but not overly confident. Girls like guys who know how to hold themselves but not arragant you know what i mean. Actually it would be interesting to see what the girls on her think. There is another clue

**sakio pod** · January 2, 2007, 02:00:15 AM

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good luck man

you can remain on top if you play your cards right

**ShawnD64** · January 2, 2007, 02:06:39 AM

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thanks guys... got the plan! i wont be arrogant, thats certainly not me.
problem is since i moved 6months ago i havent met anyone really, so i dont want to fuck it up. and i never pull random girls, its always a friend or friend of a friend... so this calling business is new to me

**Life on Other Planets AKA Johns** · January 2, 2007, 02:09:53 AM

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No prob about the advice mate. Just take it easy and things will fall into place. go to sleep and wake up the next day and you will feel better. There is no point trying to control something you have no conrtol over. if it happens it does. Take care mate and hope it all works out. Oh and if you do go on your date we want details

**ShawnD64** · January 2, 2007, 02:13:59 AM

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Originally posted by johns

No prob about the advice mate. Just take it easy and things will fall into place. go to sleep and wake up the next day and you will feel better. There is no point trying to control something you have no conrtol over. if it happens it does. Take care mate and hope it all works out. Oh and if you do go on your date we want details

yea, i do need some serious sleep! its 1am and i need to be up at 6.30
i will keep u updated if we do go out

thanks

**feather** · January 2, 2007, 04:29:17 AM

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Fuck all these calling rules, just go with your gut. Why can't you just leave her a message explaining you're leaving and would like to see her again before then? I did the same to a girl once except she's the one who was leaving for a holiday and we went out the night before she took off. If she's keen, she wouldn't think you're a stalker. All the best mate.

**DancingQueen** · January 2, 2007, 09:12:02 AM

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^^^ exactly....the wait 3 days rule is crap. Call when you want to call, just don't continuously call.

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