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  • ShawnD64
    Quickshot the Minute Man
    • Jan 2005
    • 1250

    hate/love it when...

    you meet a chick who is unreal and has a boyfriend. hung out with her friday night and last night and she is amazing... both of our groups of friends were away for the weekend and we met thru a mutual friend. she was complaining how her itunes did not work ... so i offered to fix it... i did and we had dinner as well friday, and then went out boozing last night for st. patricks day. she is pretty, smart, funny and has a great taste in music (not house music, but my non house music taste and hers are identical). we can talk for hours. it pisses me off that i cannot find someone like this, but in the same sense, i am glad i had the chance to meet her and spend some time with her. oh well, she lives in europe and i am in boston... id never work, but i want one damnit.
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  • anonin
    Juvenile Delinquent
    • Oct 2005
    • 2347

    #2
    Re: hate/love it when...

    this has happened to me alot. A LOT. i always just make fun of the girls boyfriend in front of her while bigging myself up

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    • simonr
      Transitionator
      • Jun 2004
      • 8796

      #3
      Re: hate/love it when...

      I was seeing a girl from NYC for 3 years ... unless you are a jet-setting DJ, the distance, cost and practicalities are a nightmare - but that shouldn't necessarily put you off (the plus side was that we had some amazing times, she was beautiful, we got an amazingly and I got to sample what an amazing place NYC is). I say go for it !
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      • ShawnD64
        Quickshot the Minute Man
        • Jan 2005
        • 1250

        #4
        Re: hate/love it when...

        Originally posted by simonr
        I was seeing a girl from NYC for 3 years ... unless you are a jet-setting DJ, the distance, cost and practicalities are a nightmare - but that shouldn't necessarily put you off (the plus side was that we had some amazing times, she was beautiful, we got an amazingly and I got to sample what an amazing place NYC is). I say go for it !
        the issue is the boyfriend! who she lives with and loves. she brings him up often and says they have discussed marriage... so err yea, kind of a problem! so that said i am not going to stop hanging out/talking with her (her boyfriend is deployed till april). also i leave in a week, so i dont have much time anyways...just going to enjoy my time with her till i leave...
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        • superdave
          Platinum Poster
          • Jun 2004
          • 1366

          #5
          Re: hate/love it when...

          I think many of us had this happen. I try to think of the positive side and use it as a good experience when you do meet that single girl. In reality, you don't know how a more intimate relationship would go. Dating someone and being friends is a big difference in the long run. Again on the positive note, keep things friendly because sometimes that girl can become single again.
          Never interrupt your enemy when he's making a mistake - Napoleon Bonaparte

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          • anonin
            Juvenile Delinquent
            • Oct 2005
            • 2347

            #6
            Re: hate/love it when...

            if she lives with him/loves him/brings him up often, then you my friend are stuck in friend zone unless some extraordinary shit happens. It sucks man, just gotta suck it up and move on...

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            • lilsensa
              DUDERZ get a life!!!
              • Jun 2004
              • 6675

              #7
              Re: hate/love it when...

              The way I look at it...She shouldn't be going out to dinner with you if she has a boyfriend..If I were you, I wouldn't invest too much time into this chick. Here she is, going out on a dinner date with you while she has a boyfriend. Do you honestly think that she wouldn't do the same to you if you and her were an item?? Save yourself some sanity, and lose the thoughts of being with her..Just my thought.....
              RIP ~ Steve James







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              • ShawnD64
                Quickshot the Minute Man
                • Jan 2005
                • 1250

                #8
                Re: hate/love it when...

                dont get me wrong here, i am not thinking i can be with her. i never did, i know she is dedicated to her boyfriend. i just wish i could meet someone like this who is unattached. i am taking it for what it is for sure and not getting too invested.
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                • lilsensa
                  DUDERZ get a life!!!
                  • Jun 2004
                  • 6675

                  #9
                  Re: hate/love it when...

                  True
                  RIP ~ Steve James







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                  • kaskas
                    Getting warmed up
                    • Mar 2007
                    • 57

                    #10
                    Re: hate/love it when...

                    tell her what she needs to hear,you know what i mean

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                    • jay813
                      Platinum Poster
                      • May 2005
                      • 1344

                      #11
                      Re: hate/love it when...

                      4 problems with this situation already mentioned:

                      1. she has a boyfriend she is very into
                      2. she is going on "dates" with other guys
                      3. youre in the friend zone
                      4. long distance never works out

                      remember that her status and location can change, i wouldnt hold my breath, take it as a learning experience and move on


                      side note: why cant i find any girls that are into house music? its always crappy radio music or country,lol

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                      • Bululu
                        Gold Gabber
                        • Jun 2004
                        • 810

                        #12
                        Re: hate/love it when...

                        Forget about long distance relationships , nail her before you leave if you can , or else you will regret it all your life, she knows that you are leaving, she might never see you again so she might accept.

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                        • SyntaxTerror
                          Occupation: Playtex Sales
                          • Jun 2004
                          • 964

                          #13
                          Re: hate/love it when...

                          ^^^ Listen to Bululu. He's a smart man. You have to nail this bird before you don't have another chance.
                          "If not for Josh Wink, Sasha wouldn't own any Acid except for the paper stuff he dopes chicks with at clubs." - Jenks, 2004

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                          • cobalt1
                            Fresh Peossy
                            • Mar 2007
                            • 30

                            #14
                            Re: hate/love it when...

                            When I was a young boy
                            My mama said to me
                            There's only one girl in the world for you
                            And she probably lives in Tahiti

                            Or maybe she's in the Bahamas
                            Where the Carribean sea is blue
                            Weeping in a tropical moonlit night
                            Because nobody's told her 'bout you
                            I should be lying on that sun-soaked beach with her
                            Caressing her warm brown skin
                            And then in a year or maybe not quite
                            We'll be sharing the same next of kin


                            "Wreckless Eric -- Whole Wide World"


                            |^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^|-|\___
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                            |._......,,......___________/=||_|__|...o]
                            """"'(@)"(@)"""""""""""(@)(@)++++(@)

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                            • ShawnD64
                              Quickshot the Minute Man
                              • Jan 2005
                              • 1250

                              #15
                              Re: hate/love it when...

                              no chance of nailing her. if not on saturday then never.... we were hammered and i slept in her guest room of her house. so it aint happening! she woke me up at 9 to give me water and an aspirin

                              thanks for the words cobalt

                              thing is i am dating someone at home (not girlfriend)... losing interest
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