some sort of dilema

[qwerty2222]

a friend of mine, wich i cant really trust is trying something
lattely, he sends sms to my sister, asking her to go out with him, but she has a boyfriend for a couple of years and he knows it but the thing is this friend of mine didnt tell me that he likes her or ask me if it would be ok to ask her out
my sister knows him thru me, but he considers him my friend and nothing more
she doesnt know how to tell him to back off and she asked me to talk to him
so what should i do?
should i smack his face or just have a little chat with him
it really botthers me that he didnt tell me anything about the sms, what did he think that he would sleep with her and i wouldt know and that would make me feel fine?i dont thing thats what freinds do to each other and not to mention its my sister we"re talking about
i really feel like smashing his face off

[Jenks]

talk to him first, smash is face as a second resort.

or the other way around.

[skahound]

Never had a younger sister but I used to dig my buddy's sister. There was just this unspoken understanding between us that I would never cross that line. Even though both her mother and my mother wanted us together and always dropped hints about it, my loyalty was to my mate.

I would just have a chat with him. Be civil about it. Give the guy a chance to explain and make sure you tell him what you think of it; don't sugarcoat it.

[Kamal]

either ways both of what jenks said should be in there...... doesnt he know the rule.....if you've been freinds for more than 24 hours, your sister is off limits to him..... ASSHOLE.....

-e-

[qwerty2222]

talk to him first, smash is face as a second resort.

or the other way around.

i considered talking to him first but, why sould i play the good guy when he didnt botther to tell me anything?

[qwerty2222]

either ways both of what jenks said should be in there...... doesnt he know the rule.....if you've been freinds for more than 24 hours, your sister is off limits to him..... ASSHOLE.....

-e-

thats what i thought too

[MJ]

Buy a left handed poolcue and beat him about the face.

[qwerty2222]

Buy a left handed poolcue and beat him about the face.

thanks man for the suggestion

[chato]

Re: some sort of dilema

ill say try and talk to him... try avoiding violence.... unless he keeps on doing it after you tell him

[el presidente Highsteppa]

Re: some sort of dilema

I think it's perfectly natural for any guy that wants to smash in the face of some friend that has intentions of boinking his sister.

What the hell does your friend think you are? Her pimp?

[art71]

Re: some sort of dilema

That is just wrong. Thats like asking your friend if you can date his ex after 24 hours of a break up. Thats my 2 cents.

[pimpmcknight]

Re: some sort of dilema

This friend does not sound like much of a friend if he is using these tactics. Going behind your back to hook up with your sister is bad practice. I would definitely approach him, in a civil matter (no violence yet), and tell him to slow his roll. She already has a boyfriend for goodness sake, not only should you be mad but the boyfriend as well. If he continues to harass your sis on the low then you and the boyfriend can take turns elbow smashing him... That's my advice.

[Jibgolly]

sister is defo off limits.
tell him politely and if he doesnt get it, resort to physical violence.
usually a couple hands around the throat with a very mean face and some screaming scares the doosh bags away.
good luck.

[timkell]

Is your sister hot? If so, cut the guy some slack. It's understandable. LOL.

Just kidding. He's going behind your back, as he knows you wouldn't approve of it. And in some way, he feels like a dick about it, but maybe he can't help it because he likes her.

Give him the benefit of the doubt. Tell him he's an asshole for even trying to pull this shit. Then tell him your sister spoke to you and she's not interested, "SO BACK OFF!"

Then tell him, "Make sure we NEVER HAVE THIS CONVERSATION AGAIN."

BTW, i know a guy who's best friend just married his sister. When they first got together, it was pretty rough on him, of course, because of the cardinal rule. That's life. But when he realized it was serious, he got used to it. Now everyone's cool with it, obviously.

So I think the real friendship rule is "Don't try to hook up with my sister unless you're going to marry her."

[Zifry]

just invite everybody of them to have a party and take a look at the acton