"I Love You"

[KinKyJ]

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^^^ having a relationship with someone from work who's still balling her boyfriend... dude, really...

[GregWhelan]

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I'm with Jenks. Say it as often as you like if you mean it. I used to say it all the time to a past girlfriend and her to me, and we both always meant it.

[Miguel]

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Interesting that this topic should come up know...

I?m having a relationship with this girl from work, it all happened extremely fast (like...I started talking to her about 3 weeks ago)...

I?ve left my girlfriend in the meantime (not just because of this relationship, also for a bunch of other reasons) but this girl has a boyfriend who I feel she doesn?t love anymore (she won?t say for sure), and she feels he doesn?t love her either.

Anyway, she hasn?t been able to finish off that relationship yet, she says she?s very confused, but in the meantime me and her are living this really intense relationship, where we?ll meet as often as we can, keep sending text messages to each other whenever we?re not together...I mean the 1st time we kissed I?d swear there was an earthquake, and by now, I?m pretty sure this is the woman I?ve waited for my whole life...and I know she feels strongly about me...but it?s like she?s waiting for ?something? to happen...waiting for me to say or do something.

I want to tell her "I love you" so much, but I?m afraid of it, because I?m afraid I?ll get hurt...it?s something really BIG for me to say...and I?m afraid she won?t say "I love you too".

But I wonder if she?d find the courage to break up with the other guy if I told her how much I love her.

Sorry for the long post...

how old are you man ?!! i mean come on

[rainman]

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i am a firm beleiver that you cant say it enough, but you can say it too little. if you love someone, let them know; otherwise you may never get the chance to do so again.

Interesting that this topic should come up know...

I?m having a relationship with this girl from work, it all happened extremely fast (like...I started talking to her about 3 weeks ago)...

I?ve left my girlfriend in the meantime (not just because of this relationship, also for a bunch of other reasons) but this girl has a boyfriend who I feel she doesn?t love anymore (she won?t say for sure), and she feels he doesn?t love her either.

Anyway, she hasn?t been able to finish off that relationship yet, she says she?s very confused, but in the meantime me and her are living this really intense relationship, where we?ll meet as often as we can, keep sending text messages to each other whenever we?re not together...I mean the 1st time we kissed I?d swear there was an earthquake, and by now, I?m pretty sure this is the woman I?ve waited for my whole life...and I know she feels strongly about me...but it?s like she?s waiting for ?something? to happen...waiting for me to say or do something.

I want to tell her "I love you" so much, but I?m afraid of it, because I?m afraid I?ll get hurt...it?s something really BIG for me to say...and I?m afraid she won?t say "I love you too".

But I wonder if she?d find the courage to break up with the other guy if I told her how much I love her.

Sorry for the long post...

this is going to be disasterous, not a good situation to be in. if this chick is cheating on her boyfriend with you, do you honestly think that she will be faithful to you?

[Corven]

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Interesting that this topic should come up know...

I?m having a relationship with this girl from work, it all happened extremely fast (like...I started talking to her about 3 weeks ago)...

I?ve left my girlfriend in the meantime (not just because of this relationship, also for a bunch of other reasons) but this girl has a boyfriend who I feel she doesn?t love anymore (she won?t say for sure), and she feels he doesn?t love her either.

Anyway, she hasn?t been able to finish off that relationship yet, she says she?s very confused, but in the meantime me and her are living this really intense relationship, where we?ll meet as often as we can, keep sending text messages to each other whenever we?re not together...I mean the 1st time we kissed I?d swear there was an earthquake, and by now, I?m pretty sure this is the woman I?ve waited for my whole life...and I know she feels strongly about me...but it?s like she?s waiting for ?something? to happen...waiting for me to say or do something.

I want to tell her "I love you" so much, but I?m afraid of it, because I?m afraid I?ll get hurt...it?s something really BIG for me to say...and I?m afraid she won?t say "I love you too".

But I wonder if she?d find the courage to break up with the other guy if I told her how much I love her.

Sorry for the long post...

try saying 'I love you' after you sleep with her then see how it goes after .. but like Kinky said ..... dude, seriously

[Morgan]

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I think it's overused with some people and damn irratating too. IMO you don;t need to keep saying it even if you both mean it, you just know your in love.

^^^ having a relationship with someone from work who's still balling her boyfriend... dude, really...

You would Jan, you would! Anyhow, situation needs to be resolved now, the longer it takes the more you'll get hurt. Shame you work with her, i could never work in the same place as a girlfriend.

[KinKyJ]

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You would Jan, you would!

Nah, I don't play well with others. Especially not when the toy is a bird.

[unkownartist]

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<instert vomit comment here>



na i guess i,ve never been in that situation personally so i cant comment

[Kinetic]

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Shame you work with her, i could never work in the same place as a girlfriend.

I met my previous girlfriend at work. We lived together 6 years and had a kid.

But yeah, regarding my current situation, I guess it?s good when you have people who can see it in a much colder and distant light give you an opinion, like you guys have done here.

She says she?s confused, she says she hasn?t had sex with her boyfriend in ages because she doesn?t feel any attraction to him anymore, doesn?t love him anymore...but also doesn?t want to "hurt him"...and I?ve been holding up on putting more pressure on her because she had a surgery done on her about a week ago, so I didn?t want to to put her in an even more "difficult" situation right now...

But I?m getting to this point where where just today she told me "sometimes I wish things were different so I didn?t have to make up excuses to anyone to be with you"...and I feel like asking "well, what?s the hold up, if that?s how you feel and you want to be with me that much, what reasons are there for you to still be with him?". I mean, something is definitely not right.

One thing I know, I love her, and when we got back together last saturday, after that surgery...it was really intense...it?s getting to the point where I can?t stand this uncertainty anymore, so I?m just gonna come right out and say it, Morgan is absolutely right, the longer things stay like this, the more hurt I?ll be if things fall through...

[rubyraks]

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You could never say it enough if you mean it...

[Garrick]

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hi karen!

not sure what prompted this, but............ if someone gets tired of someone else saying 'i love you' then that means they aren't reciprocating the emotion... and i guarantee you it isn't because you've said it too often. hands down, say it as often as you want. as long as both feel that way, there shouldn't be a problem. hopefully that is NOT the situation you're in now and you're just asking to ask. hope your relationship is going dandily doodily.

[anonin]

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My wife and I always say it at night last thing before going to bed.

awwww how sweet, let me post some pictures of kittens and bunnies now...

[Garrick]

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^ LMAO! don't forget butterflies.

[DancingQueen]

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hi karen!

not sure what prompted this, but............ if someone gets tired of someone else saying 'i love you' then that means they aren't reciprocating the emotion... and i guarantee you it isn't because you've said it too often. hands down, say it as often as you want. as long as both feel that way, there shouldn't be a problem. hopefully that is NOT the situation you're in now and you're just asking to ask. hope your relationship is going dandily doodily.

I'd like to say it's not me, but I would by lying...

[Erik Mitchell]

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I have a limit of only saying "I Love You" three times a day.