differences i've noticed from dating white and black girls...

[anonin]

From what i've experienced theres a distinct difference between dating white and black girls, not the obvious ones, but the more subtle ones.

with a white girl
her "what did you do last nite"
me "just hung out with some friends, chilled, etc."
her "aw, thats cool" - then proceeds to make plans for tonite (and she asks me what i'm doing, dosn't automatically think we're doing something), talk about what she did, etc.

with a black girl
her "what did you do last nite???!!!, i didn't hear from you"
"me "just hung out with some friends, chilled, etc."
her "what? why couldn't you have hung out with me?, were any girls there?, i think your lying!" - then proceeds to interrogate me like she is NYPD and then makes drama out of something as simple as i hung out with friends and didn't tell her.

Anyone experienced this? I'm on the lookout for a nice white girl because dating a black girl around here is like dating a cop! seriously!

[lilsensa]

Re: differences i've noticed from dating white and black girls...

Can't say I've ever dated a black chick...Does Chinese count?? That girl was on my nutz all the time about what I was doing and where I was.....

[anonin]

Re: differences i've noticed from dating white and black girls...

Can't say I've ever dated a black chick...Does Chinese count?? That girl was on my nutz all the time about what I was doing and where I was.....

haha, yea, chinese chicks and black chicks are in the same basket, soooo annoying!

[MJDub]

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LOL. You know there are white chicks like that too.

[KinKyJ]

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Hehehe right, I think that's more personality related. I got the gestapo treatment from a redhead for instance. Completely psycho.

With Erzina on the other hand I often have "who gets hit on the most" competitions when we go out together. Completely hilarious.

All a matter of trust I guess. And for me the fact that the combination of the tits of a porn star with the ass of a 6-yr-old is very rare, so I'm not even thinking of touching other girls with a/my 10 ft pole

[peloquin]

Re: differences i've noticed from dating white and black girls...

there are crazy white girls too anonin

[BureOne]

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I've had pretty good luck in the past dating white, asian and latin girls.. never had a problem with any.

There was one black girl in high school who was pretty psychoish... out of the blue she asked for my number, called me a shit load of times, acted as if we were dating?? asking questions, etc.. wtf? She did have big titties but fuck it, I didnt even want to start anything.

That's the closest I ever got to "dating' a black chick.

there was one other time however, where there was this neighborhood 16 yr old black girl that I dont even want to get into.. lol whooo boy, it could have been trouble..

[lilsensa]

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^the project nympho.

[anonin]

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i bet she works at church's chicken

[runningman]

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I dated this black girl for a week and we went on a date fucked a couple times.. it was no big deal the first day.. but then she started calling me off the hook.. telling me she loved me and calling 18 times when I was at work... Typical work conversation:

Her- Hey I was jst thinking of you
Me- Oh is that why you called?
Her- Why didn't you answer I called a couple times (5)
Me- I'm at work
her- well you can still answer the phone
Me- I'm at work what s wrong with you
her- I don't know why i'm doing this there is just something about you that drives me crazy
Me- K I have to go back to work I will call you
her- K make sure you call
Me- K I will call you don't call me

She was fucked up in the head.. never talked to her again..

[Dzone]

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Never been with Black girls, but went out with girl from singapore and she was cool.....

[simonr]

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I dated a Latin American girl from Brooklyn for 2+ years (her family were originally from Honduras) - she was pretty chilled. I've with black girls and manage to avoid the ones with attitude ... in fact its some of the white girls have been nutjobs and bunny boilers !

[res0nat0r]

Re: differences i've noticed from dating white and black girls...

bunny boilers

[floridaorange]

Re: differences i've noticed from dating white and black girls...

There is a list of things wrong with this thread!

I mean clearly you have no experience with white girls

[lilsensa]

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More Black Women Consider 'Dating Out'

By DIONNE WALKER, Associated Press Writer

2 hours agoUPDATED 1 HOUR 22 MINUTES AGO
Whitney and Roslyn Holcomb entertain their 3-year-old son, Luke, ...

RICHMOND, Va. - For years, Toinetta Jones played the dating game by her mom's strict rule.
"Mom always told me, 'Don't you ever bring a white man home,'" recalled Jones, echoing an edict issued by many Southern, black mothers.
But at 37, the Alexandria divorcee has shifted to dating "anyone who asks me out," regardless of race.
"I don't sit around dreaming about the perfect black man I'm going to marry," Jones said.
Black women around the country also are reconsidering deep-seated reservations toward interracial relationships, reservations rooted in America's history of slavery and segregation.
They're taking cues from their favorite stars _ from actress Shar Jackson to tennis pro Venus Williams _ as well as support blogs, how-to books and interracially themed novels telling them it's OK to "date out."
It comes as statistics suggest American black women are among the least likely to marry.
"I'm not saying that white men are the answer to all our problems," Jones said. "I'm just saying that they offer a different solution."
She reflects many black women frustrated as the field of marriageable black men narrows: They're nearly seven times more likely to be incarcerated than white men and more than twice as likely to be unemployed.
Census data showed 117,000 black wife-white husband couples in 2006, up from 95,000 in 2000.
There were just 26,000 such couples in 1960, before a Supreme Court ruling banished laws against mixed marriages.
Black female-white male romance has become a hot topic in black-geared magazines and on Web sites, even hitting the big screen in movies like last year's "Something New."
That film centers on an affluent black woman who falls for her white landscaper, a situation not unlikely as black women scale the corporate ladder, said Evia Moore, whose interracial marriage blog draws 1,000 visitors a day.
It features articles like "Could Mr. Right Be White?" and pictures of couples like white chef Wolfgang Puck and his new Ethiopian wife.
"Black women are refusing to comply with that message about just find yourself a good blue-collar man with a job, or just find a black man," Moore said.
She pointed to low rates of black men in college, a place where women of all races often meet their spouses.
Black women on campus largely are surrounded by non-black men: In 2004, 26.5 percent of black males ages 18 to 24 were enrolled in college versus 36.5 percent of black women that age, according to the American Council on Education's most recent statistics.
Even after college, Roslyn Holcomb struggled to meet professional black men.
"I wanted to get married (and) have children," she said. "If I was only meeting one guy a year, or every few years, that wasn't going to happen."
The Alabama author eventually married white.
"I think a lot of black women are realizing or feeling that the pickings are slim," she said.
They're made even slimmer, grumble many black women, by high rates of successful black men choosing blondes. For some, they argue, white wives are the ultimate status symbol.
"They don't want a dark chocolate sister laying around their swimming pool," Moore said.
Nearly three quarters of the 403,000 black-white couples in 2006 involved black husbands.
Meanwhile, psychological barriers have discouraged black women from crossing racial lines.
"Black women are socialized to stick by their men," explained Kellina Craig-Henderson, a Howard University psychology professor who studied 15 black women dating interracially.
She said modern black women agonize over breaking male-female bonds forged in slavery and strengthened through the Jim Crow era.
"It may be even more of an issue for educated black women who have a sense of the historical realities of this country, where black women often were abused at the hands of white men," Craig-Henderson said.
Jones remembered being troubled when a white man politely approached her around 1990. Her stance softened years later, after a sobering party experience.
"All the black men literally pushed (us) out the way to talk to the blondes," said Jones, who soon declared, "I'm going to date whoever."
Black men and women have openly feuded before.
At places like Atlanta's Spelman College, black women have rallied against black male rappers characterizing them as promiscuous.
But black men are voicing their own frustrations with women they feel regard them with suspicion. "They treat us all the same," said W. Randy Short, a Washington writer who dates across races. "The rapist on the TV is the same as me."
It's a frustration director Tim Alexander tackles in "Diary of a Tired Black Man," a frank film covering everything from black women's demeanors to their weight. Frustrated by black women, the main character dates a white one.
"To a certain degree, black people are sick of each other," Alexander said. "It would be better for black men and black women to open their options."
But Ayo Handy-Kendi, creator of Black Love Day, argues blacks are simply reacting to messages linking success with whiteness. She referred to a string of successful athletes with white partners, including golfer Tiger Woods.
"They normally rejected their culture and they went to the acceptable standard of success _ a white woman," said Handy-Kendy, who thought it ironic high-achieving black women were mimicking the behavior.
Back in Virginia, Jones feels life is too short to ponder race when it comes to love.
As for mom, Jones figures, "she really admires the fact that I did something she may have really wanted to do, and never did."