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Taking the "long distance" out of my relationship
Summer 2005: yours kinky was a happy single on a mission... Fuck everything with a heartbeat during a 10 day holiday in Kusadasi, Turkey. That didn't work out like I had planned as I ran into the love of my life during my first night out there.
Since then Erzina and me have had a long distance relationship 1.500 kms apart (in bird flight). If it weren't for the internet and my budget allowing me to spend 1K on phone bills per month and 300 to 500 euro on plane tickets to fly over to the other side of Europe every two months, we wouldn't have made it this far.
Summer 2007: the paperwork to get her into the EU is almost done. The procedure to get a student visum will take too long since she has to be here on Sept 24 to start her preparatory one-year Dutch programme at the Uni of Antwerp (she has to follow this post academic training in order to be accepted for a master in strategic communication). But we're starting a procedure for a tourist visum which will be mutated to a student visum when she gets here. That will get her in Belgium on time (Sept 15).
I can't express how thrilled I am that we're finally going to be together. Not only because of the constant missing and the shitloads of money I've spent, but also (an maybe above all) because we've managed to overcome all the prejudices our friends and our parents had. For those who know the story, her parents still won't have anything to do with me, but they've stopped making threats to Erzina.
Anyways, after an era of shitty relationships (read: complete disasters) and other crap I feel like I've finally arrived at a new chapter in my life. My business is booming, I'm clean as a whistle and fit like a tit and finally the only person who can put up with my fugly personality will be waking up next to me in less than 25 days. The pieces of the puzzle are finally coming together.
Since then Erzina and me have had a long distance relationship 1.500 kms apart (in bird flight). If it weren't for the internet and my budget allowing me to spend 1K on phone bills per month and 300 to 500 euro on plane tickets to fly over to the other side of Europe every two months, we wouldn't have made it this far.
Summer 2007: the paperwork to get her into the EU is almost done. The procedure to get a student visum will take too long since she has to be here on Sept 24 to start her preparatory one-year Dutch programme at the Uni of Antwerp (she has to follow this post academic training in order to be accepted for a master in strategic communication). But we're starting a procedure for a tourist visum which will be mutated to a student visum when she gets here. That will get her in Belgium on time (Sept 15).
I can't express how thrilled I am that we're finally going to be together. Not only because of the constant missing and the shitloads of money I've spent, but also (an maybe above all) because we've managed to overcome all the prejudices our friends and our parents had. For those who know the story, her parents still won't have anything to do with me, but they've stopped making threats to Erzina.
Anyways, after an era of shitty relationships (read: complete disasters) and other crap I feel like I've finally arrived at a new chapter in my life. My business is booming, I'm clean as a whistle and fit like a tit and finally the only person who can put up with my fugly personality will be waking up next to me in less than 25 days. The pieces of the puzzle are finally coming together.
Btw, the marriage is set for Summer 2009 
Just motivates me more to be everything I can be for her 
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