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  • DancingQueen
    AVB FanClub | President
    • Oct 2005
    • 4061

    Live life to its fullest...

    ...every single day, because you never know when it will be your last

    On Tuesday afternoon a good friend of ours and Chris' brother were moving a piece of furniture at their store. While moving it our friend mentioned that he was feeling kind of light headed. Chris' brother thought he was kidding and told him he was a light-weight and to pick it back up....next thing he knows our friend is starting to faint. Chris' brother grabbed him before he hit the floor and realized something was seriously wrong....he called 911 and performed CPR for about 30min before the medics arrived...and like that he was gone

    They rushed him to the hospital where he was placed on a machine to breath and pump his heart for him...his brain was completely dead. He was given 24hrs to improve or else he would never wake up.

    His wife came to the hospital and was told her husband would probably never wake up, or if he did, he would most likely be an vegetable as his brain had been without oxygen for so long.

    Late last night it was determined it was time to say goodbye. This morning they harvested his organs for donation and pronounced him dead

    An autopsy is being performed to confirm the cause of death was a brain aneurysm. Our friend was 35 years old and in perfect health. He leaves behind a wife and 2 small girls (1 year old and a 3, almost 4 year old).

    It is scary to think that no matter what you do to stay safe and healthy, that just like that out of nowhere, you can be gone



    Please make sure you live your life each day to the fullest and make sure those around you know how you feel about them...I know this has definitely made me stop and think.
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    RIP Steve "Jibs" James - Your footprint is forever on my soul and in my heart xoxo
    RIP Jeff Shewchuk aka DJ Jeff Taylor (day_for_night) - You will live on in my heart forever xoxo

    Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
  • lilsensa
    DUDERZ get a life!!!
    • Jun 2004
    • 6675

    #2
    Re: Live life to its fullest...

    Sorry to hear about this DQ. Sometimes it takes something like this to make us slow down and appreciate who/what we have. I know I didn't give a shit about anything, then one day found my mom face down, dead in her room..Ever since then, everything I do and say to and with the people I love comes straight from the heart, and I show my appreciation and love every chance I get.

    Hope you guys are going to be alright.
    RIP ~ Steve James







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    • Huggie Smiles
      Anyone have Styx livesets?
      • Jun 2004
      • 11836

      #3
      Re: Live life to its fullest...

      Sad news indeed. Sad to news to lose a friend and worse for the 2 girls to lose their Dad.
      ....Freak in the morning, Freak in the evening, aint no other Freak like me thats breathing....




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      • DancingQueen
        AVB FanClub | President
        • Oct 2005
        • 4061

        #4
        Re: Live life to its fullest...

        ^^^ yeah I can't stop thinking about his poor little girls They are never going to get to know how awesome their daddy was
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        RIP Steve "Jibs" James - Your footprint is forever on my soul and in my heart xoxo
        RIP Jeff Shewchuk aka DJ Jeff Taylor (day_for_night) - You will live on in my heart forever xoxo

        Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.

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        • chanty
          John, John, where art thou!
          • Jun 2004
          • 4622

          #5
          Re: Live life to its fullest...

          Sorry to hear this news DQ. May he rest in peace.
          Awww...I didn't mean A holes, as in "A holes"...I meant it like, as in, my friends....

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          • res0nat0r
            Someone MARRY ME!! LOL
            • May 2006
            • 14475

            #6
            Re: Live life to its fullest...

            Wow thats terrible news, I need to start thinking more about what you said above about living life to its fullest and stop worrying about all the crap that pisses me off so much each day because you never know if something like that can happen to you.
            I wish his family and you the best...

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            • Miroslav
              WHOA I can change this!1!
              • Apr 2006
              • 4122

              #7
              Re: Live life to its fullest...

              Science has it that these things may often relate to genetics...particular when it involves a person who is still so young. A silent, random roll of the cosmic dice may have influenced your friend's fate before he was even born. It seems so cruel sometimes that it has to be this way...but I guess in the end it's the same story for each one of us; all we can do is stick together and cope.

              I'm very sorry for your loss.
              mixes: www.waxdj.com/miroslav

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              • MusicJatt
                Platinum Poster
                • Aug 2004
                • 1371

                #8
                Re: Live life to its fullest...

                sorry about your friend.

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                • RiseandShine
                  Are you Kidding me??
                  • Sep 2006
                  • 2910

                  #9
                  Re: Live life to its fullest...

                  sorry about this, thanks for letting us know, thanks for advice that's never heard enough
                  If the doors of perception were cleansed, every thing would appear to man as it is: infinite. - William Blake

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                  • DancingQueen
                    AVB FanClub | President
                    • Oct 2005
                    • 4061

                    #10
                    Re: Live life to its fullest...

                    Just heard the wake is tomorrow afternoon and the funeral on Saturday...seems to be going so fast...
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                    RIP Steve "Jibs" James - Your footprint is forever on my soul and in my heart xoxo
                    RIP Jeff Shewchuk aka DJ Jeff Taylor (day_for_night) - You will live on in my heart forever xoxo

                    Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.

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                    • buckman
                      Platinum Poster
                      • Jun 2004
                      • 2069

                      #11
                      Re: Live life to its fullest...

                      oh man that is a bummer so for the loss of your friend.I know i'll be cherrishing even the smallest things in life as much as possible.
                      " Darkness Imprisioning Me
                      All That I See
                      Absolute Horror
                      I Cannot Live
                      I Cannot Die
                      Trapped In Myself
                      Body My Holding Cell"-James Hetfield(Metallica)


                      soulseek sn buckman28

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                      • feather
                        Shanghai ooompa loompa
                        • Jul 2004
                        • 20898

                        #12
                        Re: Live life to its fullest...

                        So sorry to hear that, DQ. I'm feeling the whole 'out of nowhere, you can be gone' these days too. Found out recently my ex has a tumor in her head and the whole mortality issue is constantly on my mind now

                        i_want_to_have_sex_with_electronic_music

                        Originally posted by Hoff
                        a powerful and insane mothership that occasionally comes commanded by the real ones .. then suck us and makes us appear in the most magical of all lands
                        Originally posted by m1sT3rL
                        Oh. My. God. James absolutely obliterated the island tonight. The last time there was so much destruction, Obi Wan Kenobi had to take a seat on the Falcon after the Death Star said "hi and bye" to Leia's homeworld.

                        I got pics and video. But I will upload them in the morning. I need to smoke this nice phat joint and just close my eyes and replay the amazingness in my head.

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                        • Dhar_2
                          meat and potatoes
                          • Jun 2004
                          • 18923

                          #13
                          Re: Live life to its fullest...

                          Sorry to hear about this unfortunate incident!

                          However, at least we can all take something away from it.

                          Please make sure you live your life each day to the fullest and make sure those around you know how you feel about them...
                          Take care

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                          • nick007
                            DUDERZ get a life!!!
                            • Oct 2007
                            • 6095

                            #14
                            Re: Live life to its fullest...

                            Really sorry to hear about your friend, my dad passed away last year without me being able to say goodbye and you realize that people are only here for a fleeting moment to bring us joy and so are we to others. Again sorry for you loss.

                            The largest room in the world, is the room for improvement!

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                            • Steve Graham
                              DJ Jelly
                              • Jun 2004
                              • 12887

                              #15
                              Re: Live life to its fullest...

                              Originally posted by DancingQueen
                              Just heard the wake is tomorrow afternoon and the funeral on Saturday...seems to be going so fast...
                              Karen, I am so sorry to hear this, truly dsad to lose someone close and even more so when they are taken at such a youn age.

                              Maybe this is going fast, but also maybe so you can get past this and move on to grieve and celebrate his life in your own way.

                              keep your head up hun

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