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but why do we need 20 threads about steve, and the top 100 people all with avatars or signatures about steve? I can't read one thread on ms without being reminded multiple times of this... we all miss him, but can we please all agree that we don't need to make this place any more depressing than it already is? Please, no more new threads about missing him, no more signatures about him, and no more putting his picture in every thread. It's very frustrating to become instantly depressed every time I come here... it's making me and dozens of others not want to come on here until it goes away.
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agreed 100 %
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Well said bro.Your right it is pretty depressing.that why im going to change back an a different avatar.I think it should be only fit for the people that really knew him.I myself never knew him.which now im sorry that I never had the chance to but thats neither here nor there." Darkness Imprisioning Me
All That I See
Absolute Horror
I Cannot Live
I Cannot Die
Trapped In Myself
Body My Holding Cell"-James Hetfield(Metallica)
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i dont think youre a dick, its just everyone mourns in a different way so its hard to say to someone not to express his/hers feelings if that makes them feel a bit better or closer to jibs
ist a difficult time for the whole community and it sucks big time either way you put it♪♫•♫♪•♪♫•♫♪•♪♫•♫♪•♪♫•♫♪•♪♫•♫♪• אין סוף •♪♫•♫♪•♪♫•♫♪•♪♫•♫♪•♪♫•♫♪•♪♫•♫♪•♪♫•
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your a dick!
people have the right mourn as they feel appropriate - its part of the process.
why ask people to keep inside emotions that should be let out.
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Pickle. I agree with you that it is very depressing, and I respect your opinion.. I think the same amount of respect should be shown to those wanting to use those avatars...Agreed, there is no need to make a million thread about the issue, but if people choose to make signatures, and use that avatar, it should be respected. People grieve in different ways.
Oh, and I don't think you are a dick for saying what you feel.Comment
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Pickle, I understand where you are coming from, but we all mourn differently. You have to let everyone do what they must do to grieve. Honestly, what you asking is not fair. People have the right to show support and love for Steve, especially in MS. This was his stomping grounds. As hard as it is, you have to respect that bud.
I respect you Pickle this is hard for everyone dude. This is one place we can share the love and joy of Steve.dead, yet alive.Comment
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turn signatures and avatars off for the time being. hell, thats the way i alway have it.Comment
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I aint removing my avatar, ever.Comment
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I don't think you are a dick, I think you are dealing with this in your way, but you have to let us deal with it our way, just about nothing that anyone says or does now is wrong, we are all responding in the ways that we know. It just takes time . My time will be when I want to remove the avatar.The 'club spirit' is in the soul. It Never DiesOriginally posted by TheVrkComment
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neither will I!
Adam I totally see where you are coming from and I understand how you feel. Its definitely hard to come on here and see his pictures and listen to his sets, etc. but at the same time, its the only place I can grieve about his passing and have people understand.
When other people around me ask why I am sad and I tell them they don't understand....they ask how can I be so sad after meeting someone only once and the rest of the time talking to him on MSN every single day....the only people that understand are the people here on this board.
I think you need to let us grieve how we choose to grieve....as others have said, everyone grieves in their own way and we need to allow people to do this, especially in these circumstances....its not healthy for people to bottle things up inside as we now no all to well
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RIP Steve "Jibs" James - Your footprint is forever on my soul and in my heart xoxo
RIP Jeff Shewchuk aka DJ Jeff Taylor (day_for_night) - You will live on in my heart forever xoxo
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