Can I suggest something?

[MCKat]

Re: Can I suggest something?

I am still struggling with his death, and it is hard for me to see the pictures from his profile. I've been ok with seeing others with pictures of him from other people's profiles, and I view it as respect and remembrance. It's just weird to see them coming from his profile.

[MJ]

Re: Can I suggest something?

I have a picture of him up in front of me as I sit here now, I like to look at him and remember what fun we had in Miami. So Taking them down wouldn't bother me either way.

[phuck'm-up]

Re: Can I suggest something?

I say it is OK. It is time for us to move on. Not to forget but to move on. Not in a negative way. This was his decision you know? We have honored him in all sort of ways. Make sense? I know we all cared for him greatly. Defiantly some more than others. I think it would be a good thing to remove the pics. There is a lot of them.

From my own experience that when I see the pics I think to myself all that stuff that goes through your head like the what could have should have stuff. Do what your heart teels you to do.

[phuck'm-up]

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dont get me wrong, my response isnt negative, it just fucks me up to see him and it angers me that he never fucking told anyone what he went through when I begged him relentlessly .... seeing him there, esp when I'm puttin a few away makes it even harder and this guilt isnt helping me.

I lost a lot of friends back home when I was in India, but I dont think there has been one that did me in like Jibby's. Denial is a place that setup camp in my head even today.

You need to remove them. You can not let his decision affect you so. It was his decision. I hope things get better Kamal. My heart is with you.

[Steve Graham]

Re: Can I suggest something?

or, you can just turn off that function and move on

[Kamal]

Re: Can I suggest something?

yea but the images on the top of clubs / djs / travel / etc. are a big attraction (from the site's perspective as well). It's cool, I'll leave 'em be.

[Steve Graham]

Re: Can I suggest something?

I meant turn them off on your profile

[DIDI]

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. You can not let his decision affect you so. It was his decision. I hope things get better Kamal. My heart is with you.

Seconded and well said!

[floridaorange]

Re: Can I suggest something?

dont get me wrong, my response isnt negative, it just fucks me up to see him and it angers me that he never fucking told anyone what he went through when I begged him relentlessly .... seeing him there, esp when I'm puttin a few away makes it even harder and this guilt isnt helping me.

I lost a lot of friends back home when I was in India, but I dont think there has been one that did me in like Jibby's. Denial is a place that setup camp in my head even today.

I have also lost a lot of friends, I think his profile should stay but pics should slowly be taken down from the streaming banner section.

[ddr]

Re: Can I suggest something?

let me elaborate a little..

i think pictures of HIM should be removed because they always make my stomach a little bit unnerved

as for his random pictures, such as Sesame Street, i think those should stay up.

[lilsensa]

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^^But, those random pictures of him are coming from many users pictures. Are we really going to ask everyone to remove all pictures of him from their albums?? I don't think that is fair.

[Steve Graham]

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^^ bingo!

if they are so difficult to look at, just click on the little arrows to the right of the random album pictures

[Mad'Em Fixer]

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That's what I am not sure about. Because all of my albums that are up include pictures of him. Were you planning on deleting all of those?

[DancingQueen]

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^^ bingo!

if they are so difficult to look at, just click on the little arrows to the right of the random album pictures

I didn't even realize you could do this. I have now done this and it definitely helps to not see them. Kamal this may be the best solution for now. I have my days with the pictures as you know, and I don't want his profile deleted. I still visit it from time to time....I'm not sure why, or maybe I am just strange, but its comforting at times when I am missing him to visit it, and sometimes post a little note on his profile.

[Kamal]

Re: Can I suggest something?

lets just leave it, too much mis-interpretation over differing feelings.