How often do you have Random T**ugh,s

[trick12]

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^^ welcome back bro, here is all of them, u should subscribe to your fav artists and whenever there's a new set from them it'll show on the homepage...

[DIDI]

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Yeah you are right...the thing is this is my brother guilting me about the rest of our family. I have always only been close to select few while I view others as leaches really...sounds harsh but they only call when they need shit and even then I have to do everything for them...awful.
I wish I had a normal family

Maybe you do have a normal family. That actually sounds exactly like my family. But I know what you mean. I have one sister and her family who I adore. The rest I am not wasting my precious time on. If you give to the leeches you have less to give to the ones you are close to. Life is too short !!

Love and respect should always be earned , sharing the same DNA doesn't count imho!

[i!!ustrious]

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man... i ain't even gonna bother droppin my family drama, or close friends family b.i here.

respect earned, yeah; but i pity you when you say love has to be earned when it comes to family etc. that's some bullshit. if a bitch tells me i gotta earn her love, then her conception of love is personal love (which is but a dim reflection of true love). bitches like that i don't even take out, i just fuck their guts out.

[trick12]

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gotta love your family, or at least keep good connection with them, even if with a small visit or a phone call every once in a while, gotta learn how to forgive and forget, we cant always punish people for the rest of our lives because of something they did, and i believe family deserve and are a priority when it comes to personal time, esp when they get older they deserve some time from their kids.

[diegoff]

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I don't have a relationship because "it's part of my family" - that's the way most part of the society thinks. A relationship is created and built by both sides of it, cause it only takes two sides to make one. I select the kind of relationship I have with my family with the same criteria I select my friends and people who I want to share my life with. If I don't like selfish people, bitches, m*fkers, liars and all that kind of shit, I don't like it in my parents either. It worked for me, and I had the (fatal) chance to prove it. But you have to be very sincere with yourself when you decide to left someone apart. I mean, don't follow your anger or sadness -if you have some against him/her- because you'll be hurting yourself and the other person, and sometimes it's late to get back. It's just how I think, I try not to be attached to any beliefs.

[DIDI]

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^^^ Well said !!

[DIDI]

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gotta love your family, or at least keep good connection with them, even if with a small visit or a phone call every once in a while, gotta learn how to forgive and forget, we cant always punish people for the rest of our lives because of something they did, and i believe family deserve and are a priority when it comes to personal time, esp when they get older they deserve some time from their kids.

Why do you have to love someone who treats you badly. ??? I cried a lot about my mother before I asked myself that question. So many people are damaged because they put up with so much more from a family member than they would from a stranger.

[trick12]

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well if you dont love em just at least keep good connection, even if with a hi every once in a while...you dont have to burn the bridges down completely, always try to remember the good from people as much as you can.

[Hoff]

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^^ welcome back bro, here is all of them, u should subscribe to your fav artists and whenever there's a new set from them it'll show on the homepage...

thankss trick12

but there is any difference between the homegrove files and the ones here http://www.mercuryserver.com/forums/...M-January-2011 ?¿

[floridaorange]

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Hevelius Kaper is a damn fine beer, one of my new favorites actually!

[bobjuice]

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Jerusalem Artichoke Soup

[floridaorange]

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Sometimes being the bigger person in a relationship with a parent or aunt or uncle is needed because for whatever reason they see you as the stronger more noble person. I don't think anyone should enable a family members toxic behavior, but I do think small doses of love and care can go a long way.

[Haziel]

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"My baby does K all day
She doesn't wash her hair.
She doesn't wash her clothes... "

[DIDI]

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well if you dont love em just at least keep good connection, even if with a hi every once in a while...you dont have to burn the bridges down completely, always try to remember the good from people as much as you can.

You obviously have a good family

I don't want damaging , negative people in my life just because they are related.

[bobjuice]

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"My baby does K all day
She doesn't wash her hair.
She doesn't wash her clothes... "

love it!