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  • floridaorange
    I'm merely a humble butler
    • Dec 2005
    • 29116

    Re: Random T**ugh,s

    My good friend and his gf have lived together for years, and it seems to work great for them, whatever works, at the end of the day, it's all about love, respect, forgiveness and mostly commitment. good talk, and respect to you too bro.

    It was fun while it lasted...

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    • KiwiTollway
      Platinum Poster
      • Jan 2014
      • 1474

      Re: Random T**ugh,s

      Originally posted by floridaorange
      ^.....we have funerals, marriages, graduations and so forth. They mean something to some people. They mean nothing to others. And that's fine. To me and my family, marriage is a sacred thing.



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      • diegoff
        Are you Kidding me??
        • Jun 2004
        • 3864

        Re: Random T**ugh,s

        Originally posted by Hoff
        if you have any problems, just put The Soft Parade and disappear into meditation mode
        good words, man
        Itīs a spiritual thing!

        feb 2021 https://soundcloud.com/diegoarv/pand...os-inflamables
        Sept 26th https://soundcloud.com/diegoarv/earthling-vibes
        May 1st 2020 https://soundcloud.com/diegoarv/current

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        • sbando
          Going back to Romford
          • Apr 2008
          • 11660

          Re: Random T**ugh,s

          Put on Oakenfold - Global Underground '96 and fuck with the rest.

          "I really don't care anymore
          About all the Jim-Jim's in this town
          And all the politicians makin' crazy sounds
          And everybody puttin' everybody else down"
          ╔══╗............/\_ļ_/\
          ╚╗╔╝...........(=•_•=)
          ╔╝(Ŋ`vīŊ).......ღ***ღ.*
          ╚══`.ļ. ...:::.(Ŋ`•\|/•īŊ) ☆*゚

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          • trick12
            Are you Kidding me??
            • Jul 2007
            • 4412

            Re: Random T**ugh,s

            learn to swim, flush it all away
            Life's pretty fast..blup..blup...We made it!!

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            • sbando
              Going back to Romford
              • Apr 2008
              • 11660

              Re: Random T**ugh,s

              Yeah, right.
              ╔══╗............/\_ļ_/\
              ╚╗╔╝...........(=•_•=)
              ╔╝(Ŋ`vīŊ).......ღ***ღ.*
              ╚══`.ļ. ...:::.(Ŋ`•\|/•īŊ) ☆*゚

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              • Hoff
                Are you Kidding me??
                • Aug 2009
                • 4727

                Re: Random T**ugh,s














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                • floridaorange
                  I'm merely a humble butler
                  • Dec 2005
                  • 29116

                  Re: Random T**ugh,s

                  stoned kitty takes a cat nap

                  It was fun while it lasted...

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                  • Hoff
                    Are you Kidding me??
                    • Aug 2009
                    • 4727

                    Re: Random T**ugh,s




                    Originally posted by floridaorange
                    ^the same could be said for a college diploma, drivers license, certification. Humans are ceremonial, we have funerals, marriages, graduations and so forth. They mean something to some people. They mean nothing to others. And that's fine.



                    and ofcourse the whole that,

                    i said what i said also because this "
                    Marriage is a more ideal circumstance for living together in my humble opinion "


                    should not be any difference i feel, just real love which i think is very uncommon in the real far far way,


                    but it is also important try to not judge anything or anyone, i understand what you meaned but i think there is no more ideal or not ideal if you are married o whatever story



                    ideal is to be real people, real always, and in whtaver situation that appears on the road , accept and let go, as fast as possible always





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                    • floridaorange
                      I'm merely a humble butler
                      • Dec 2005
                      • 29116

                      Re: Random T**ugh,s

                      Sure my man, the far love fairytale is beautiful and I actually agree with that being very important, but if you add a baby and mortgage and so on to the mix, that commitment made before God and both families starts to be more vital. And since a life partner was partially about having kids for us, marriage was the natural next step.

                      I tell people all the time, relationships or living together or even marriage isn't actually that difficult or anything. But add kids to the mix, and it gets tricky and far from simple or easy. That marriage part can keep a family unit in tact when the shit hits the fan, and it will. That is, if you are both committed to the work.

                      It was fun while it lasted...

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                      • trick12
                        Are you Kidding me??
                        • Jul 2007
                        • 4412

                        Re: Random T**ugh,s

                        i understood nothing!
                        Life's pretty fast..blup..blup...We made it!!

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                        • KiwiTollway
                          Platinum Poster
                          • Jan 2014
                          • 1474

                          Re: Random T**ugh,s

                          Originally posted by Hoff
                          ideal is to be real people, real always, and in whatever situation that appears on the road accept and let go, as fast as possible always
                          ^^THIS!!

                          Some think of marriage as a term indicating ownership or as a conventional institution, and they're not into any of that as "ideal," understandably. Love is love; there are many forms of it.

                          But like I'm always telling my kids as they're dating and I hear so much "I don't have him/her anymore; I really want him/her" and it's like "Yea, but you can't 'have' anyone as in 'own' anyone, so let that idea go." Everyone, married or not, is free to leave anytime, commitment or not, in all relationships we're free human beings (unless in actual bondage, of course). The only person we really have is ourselves.......... to give to whom we'd like, still free to leave anytime. Make peace with that first, you only have yourself to own.

                          People can be in a marriage (with or without kids) and really be, for the most part, already "gone" because not much love is shown.

                          At times I've felt my hubs is 'gone' and we have conversations like "if you're gone, make it real and just go, so I can go love somewhere else." Commitment + love make him stay I guess... not necessarily "marriage." We're at the point having been married for so long, if the marriage ends, it was still a great success story. but anyway, it won't because there is love, for now. For "now" is really the important focus.

                          Love is a choice at times; love is a commitment other times; love is a feeling occasionally; love endures difficult times, but it's always a choice. Marriage, or any relationship where you're not actually free to leave, is without love, and is bondage/suffering. And isn't making someone want to stay the fun part?!!! lol Make it fun!

                          On that note, Happy Valentine's Day weekend!

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                          • Hoff
                            Are you Kidding me??
                            • Aug 2009
                            • 4727

                            Re: Random T**ugh,s





                            Originally posted by floridaorange
                            Sure my man, the far love fairytale is beautiful and I actually agree with that being very important, but if you add a baby and mortgage and so on to the mix, that commitment made before God and both families starts to be more vital. And since a life partner was partially about having kids for us, marriage was the natural next step.

                            I tell people all the time, relationships or living together or even marriage isn't actually that difficult or anything. But add kids to the mix, and it gets tricky and far from simple or easy. That marriage part can keep a family unit in tact when the shit hits the fan, and it will. That is, if you are both committed to the work.





                            but "marriage" has nothing to do with giving love to a child, real love is to give a real bond between parents, everything else is just a fact that has nothing to do with real Love, it's just anecdotal data


                            i donīt know if bond is the correct translation



                            also, traditional education has nothing to do with giving real Love to a child, absolutely nothing, it's just an education to control - cutting creativity and generate another asleep product of the system

                            based on a scoring system totally perverse for a child, all that garbage education system has expired . .. but people still sucking because most people are totally disconnected from their inner wisdom



                            Fortunately there are other ways, and many parents awakening from unconsciousness











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                            • KiwiTollway
                              Platinum Poster
                              • Jan 2014
                              • 1474

                              Re: Random T**ugh,s

                              Hubby took me to this yummy place yesterday, Japanese, called "Shabu Shabu" which means swish swish. It was so fresh and delicious & fun as well. (If there's one in your city, I recommend it.)

                              Then we had chocolate-covered strawberries. He got me a blue orchid on a heart-shaped trellis with a red bow. And we watched the sunset at a very quiet, secluded park beside an extremely still lake, so gorgeous!

                              did you have a nice one?

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                              • KiwiTollway
                                Platinum Poster
                                • Jan 2014
                                • 1474

                                Re: Random T**ugh,s

                                Originally posted by Hoff
                                .... it's just an education to control - cutting creativity and generate another asleep product of the system

                                based on a scoring system totally perverse for a child, all that garbage education system has expired . .. but people still sucking because most people are totally disconnected from their inner wisdom
                                Do you homeschool Hoff?

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