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[floridaorange]

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^in an effort to keep things simple for pipey, check your inbox shpira.

[Shpira]

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he just said he was lying to make you feel good...LOL

Just joking man. He gave me such a good explanation of his infallible logic that I simply had no rebuttal whatsoever.

[Dhar_2]

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really sorry to hear that mate.

when i went through a similar situation the guys here where here for me in this thread if you can gain anything from it :- http://www.mercuryserver.com/forums/...ad.php?t=37859

kamal's post from back then stuck with me. i hope it can help you to.

Found these on the web today and immediately thought of your predicament.... some good ones here mate



Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.

take care and you know where we are.

[DancingQueen]

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so last night she broke up with me. man, i feel so low - i feel like i have been crushed.

Awww hun *hug*

I know that feeling all to well, and it really really sucks. I promise you it will get better, and I am not just saying that because its the thing to say....it is true. Last year when I felt like that everyone told me to "hang in there, it will get better" and I didn't believe them for a second, but they were right.

It may take you a few weeks, a month, a few months, even a year, but you will feel better. You will start to worry about you and only you and better yourself. I am a much stronger, healthier, happier, independent person, then I ever was when I was with my ex. I have made myself whole again and then some. It will take some time, but it will happen for you too.

If you need to talk at all, I am here for you whenever you need me. I have MSN, FB, email, phone, etc. Feel free to get in touch with me anytime.

xoxo

[dusk]

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I know that feeling all to well, and it really really sucks. I promise you it will get better, and I am not just saying that because its the thing to say

+1

Pipey we are all here for you.... I know its not the same but sometimes its better than that feeling of being alone especially alone in your head can be a scary place.

[pipey]

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so i went out tongith to a club, and she was there too - she threw her arms around me and said that she loves me and doesnt want to be with anyone else... but then, she didnt want to kiss - guess friends dont kiss... was pretty weird. i went out for a smoke and when i got back, she was gone... she was hanging out with her friend who was pretty trashed tho, so maybe she took her home... sigh. its a total mindfuck.

[floridaorange]

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^I really think you are better off without this girl, but to find out, stop paying any attention to her whatsoever. Don't let her have her cake and eat it to. Women feel love by emotion much more-so than men, so stop giving her any of your emotions pipey.

[dusk]

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NEVER a good idea to see your ex after a breakup... it hits you harder than before. You'll be looking to "bump" into her at places you know she vists etc.. but that will cause you to linger. The key is to be able to take care of yourself at this time. You are #1 not her.

[Shpira]

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kinda reminds me of my ex...she was a bit of a control freak. She enjoyed the attention she got from me but was never there when I needed her and then as soon as I would move on to better things she would show up and try to make up. I know that you are going through a tough time but you need to sort yourself out. Decide what YOU want and pursue those things...otherwise she will pull your strings and play with your feelings. Not intentionally maybe but she will. She is just a distraction now IMO...you should move on to someone who will appreciate you.

[pipey]

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Aaaargh. Ms I am so miserable. I'm not trying to be all complainey but I'm so lonely without her. I can't eat. I can't sleep. I have smoked a 1/2 ounce of weed and 10 packs of camels and taken a bunch of naughty salt and vitamin tablets since Friday. I can't stop crying I have been shaking. I can barely type this. I don't even know why I'm posting this. Life without her seems so one dimentional. I have no distraction from this misery that works. Oh my fuck ms. I'm actually going out of my
mind. I I'm literally freaking out. I can't believe this is happening

[poults]

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Man, steer clear of the naughty salt and all that shit, its only gonna help confuse you more in the short term.

[Kamal]

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Aaaargh. Ms I am so miserable. I'm not trying to be all complainey but I'm so lonely without her. I can't eat. I can't sleep. I have smoked a 1/2 ounce of weed and 10 packs of camels and taken a bunch of naughty salt and vitamin tablets since Friday. I can't stop crying I have been shaking. I can barely type this. I don't even know why I'm posting this. Life without her seems so one dimentional. I have no distraction from this misery that works. Oh my fuck ms. I'm actually going out of my
mind. I I'm literally freaking out. I can't believe this is happening

if you can, convince a friend to head out of town with you for a few days. One of the best things to ease an aching heart is to distract it with a change of scenery (it has worked for me every time). yes it won't go away entirely but it helps with the intensity of the separation pangs you will initially suffer from.

dont be home by yourself, and esp don't do any of the salts alone. you WILL fuck yourself up even more. just get out and get a change of scenery. you owe it to yourself.

[Dhar_2]

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Aaaargh. Ms I am so miserable. I'm not trying to be all complainey but I'm so lonely without her. I can't eat. I can't sleep. I have smoked a 1/2 ounce of weed and 10 packs of camels and taken a bunch of naughty salt and vitamin tablets since Friday. I can't stop crying I have been shaking. I can barely type this. I don't even know why I'm posting this. Life without her seems so one dimentional. I have no distraction from this misery that works. Oh my fuck ms. I'm actually going out of my
mind. I I'm literally freaking out. I can't believe this is happening

the road to ruin wont help anything!

you need to get out there and FIND yourself not LOSE yourself.

start new activities, go to the gym, meet new people.

you need to steer clear of her. she is just messing with your head. she feels guilty and is going to do you more bad than good with all these games.

keep your chin up and live your life!

[srbbnd]

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so last night she broke up with me. man, i feel so low - i feel like i have been crushed.

Sorry buddy you failed the test...

[floridaorange]

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This may seem hokey, but I can promise you it will help. I went through a similar experience when I was 18, this book was very enlightening. (Sold over 4 million for a reason).

If you don't love yourself fully and completely, you frankly are not ready to get married and fully love someone else. Just being brutally honest.



+ what Kamal suggested.