I need help, I want her back.

[alexfish333]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

my man querty was LUCKY, its all about perceived power

when you go from being a jackass and thinking she's disposable to then begging for her back she isn't going to respect you or want anything you have to offer because she is going to think that you aren't exactly on top of the world if you are spending so much time writing weepy emails

[skahound]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

Is this the same bird?

MY FUCKING VACATION GOT RUINED. I gave my girl a call and she was in a fucking HOTEL room with a guy... He picked up and said never to call her again. I was like who am I speaking with... He said its not important. I was like she told me to call her, this is fucking for the birds peace. Before I hung up he called me a fucking asshole. Holy shit I never drove so fast down the fucking parkway in my entire life. got home in about 30 minutes from seaside nj... Douche bag wouldn't open the hotel room door and he told me to leave before he calls his friends. I was like okay call your friends you fucking pussy, I will take them all on!

Okay so this has been the summer of shit...

Through two gf, tons of car problems, vacation cut short, and I don't even get the satisfaction of beating the piss out of the asshole who called me a fucking asshole...

I can't wait till the sun comes up, I am fucking waiting in that parking lot come 9am...

It is about 3:22 am now, I am fucking so pissed, can't wait to get my anger out.

[DreamGirlie]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

Yeah people change but she is always going to think about the time you fucked her over.

EXACTLY, people never forget an injury, that's what they call experience

-e-

they never forget but they learn how to deal

*deep thought by DG

[remoh]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

We both go to the same school. And work with eachother at work. And yeah I fucking blew it big time.

:? this could be a plus...then there is this approach, leave her the fuck alone ..specially if you see her all the time.. let her c u being u.... have fun with her in group situations, but dont bug her...she'll come around because she will miss the fun u !! .... if you keep bugging her she'll avoid you everytime u see her.... you've made it known that you want her back, now back of and let her be... wow this brings back horrible memories, i had something like this happen and i bugged the shit out of the girl...she took me back out of pitty and it only lasted a couple more weeks....be carefull

[Weizy]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

Don't let this bitch know you want her so bad-it only turns them off. If she thinks you don't need her or have better things to do and there is some part of her that is still interested then she will make you realize that in her own way.

in my experience you have to play a littly bit of hard to get in these situations. if you let on that you are dying to get back together she will be turned off very quickly. whenever my ex-girlfriend of four years would break up with me she would not want anything to do with me til I was dating a new girl and all of the sudden my ex is calling ME trying to get back together :?

[clintlove]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

I can tell you from a few personal experiences that you shouldn't sweat this so hard. It's a turn-off to girls to see men act like this. Don't elaborate on your feelings so much, she knows you want her back and that's enough. Playing it cool is your best option.

[remoh]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

Is this the same bird?

MY FUCKING VACATION GOT RUINED. I gave my girl a call and she was in a fucking HOTEL room with a guy... He picked up and said never to call her again. I was like who am I speaking with... He said its not important. I was like she told me to call her, this is fucking for the birds peace. Before I hung up he called me a fucking asshole. Holy shit I never drove so fast down the fucking parkway in my entire life. got home in about 30 minutes from seaside nj... Douche bag wouldn't open the hotel room door and he told me to leave before he calls his friends. I was like okay call your friends you fucking pussy, I will take them all on!

Okay so this has been the summer of shit...

Through two gf, tons of car problems, vacation cut short, and I don't even get the satisfaction of beating the piss out of the asshole who called me a fucking asshole...

I can't wait till the sun comes up, I am fucking waiting in that parking lot come 9am...

It is about 3:22 am now, I am fucking so pissed, can't wait to get my anger out.

holy shit i didn't read this post .. my advice changes now..fuck the bitch..find someone else and act (be)happy around her!!

[superdave]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

If that was you that waited outside the hotel then screw it and move on to your next relationship and just end it. The best revenge is to move on and appear happy without her.

If she really wants to make it work and you do too, then just don't get back together because you're lonely. You'll break up again for similar reasons. Talk about what the problems are in person(not via email) and see if they can be fixed.

[MJ]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

this could be a plus...then there is this approach, leave her the fuck alone ..specially if you see her all the time.. let her c u being u.... have fun with her in group situations, but dont bug herl

Thats the best piece of advice you could probably follow. Take it from an old timer who`s seen both sides of the grass many times.

P.S I wonder if he`s still in the car park? :?

[fumanchu182]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

the girl in the hotel room was the girl i left the one i want for...

the grass is greener on the other side but it always ain't cut to the right size for your yard...

[remoh]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

the grass is not greener on the other side , it only seems greener

[being clever]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

The Streets says:

Dry your eyes mate
I know it?s hard to take but her mind has been made up
There?s plenty more fish in the sea
Dry your eyes mate
I know you want to make her see how much this pain hurts
But you?ve got to walk away now
It?s over

I say: Life is long and the world is HUGE! So if this one gets away, don't worry about it. If a relationship was meant to be, everything would fall into play easily. If she's not taking you back and you still want to make things right, do this: Choose the right words, send her flowers w/ card attached, and play defense. Do not try to contact her again beyond that! She has your number/e-mail and if she's interested, she'll let you know. Dig it, even is she turns you down, at least you ended on a high note. If her friends ask, "what about Jersey?"..."Oh, he sent me flowers," she'll say.

GOOD LUCK ACE

[sakio pod]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

tell her how you feel............and don't i repeat DO NOT CALL HER. trust me thats the worst the you can do.....is call and call after a week she'll be like what the fuck

[lmmadic]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

this could be a plus...then there is this approach, leave her the fuck alone ..specially if you see her all the time.. let her c u being u.... have fun with her in group situations, but dont bug herl

Thats the best piece of advice you could probably follow. Take it from an old timer who`s seen both sides of the grass many times.

i second that advice, only way to get them back imo.

learned that the hard way

[wonk]

Re: I need help, I want her back.

yep, play it cool man, she sees you all the time so will be reminded of you constantly. if you keep at her she defo wont take ya back