What a great feeling!!!

[hear_my_name]

Re:: What a great feeling!!!

damn it! I'm crying 2 now....

aaawwwww!!! its ok to cry.. i mean it is a very moving story

[swedetech]

Re:: What a great feeling!!!

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[Neo]

Should I be angry (not positive mind you) that their biological father maybe putting it into there heads that I'm not there father and to not call me dad. They used to correct themselves and I would say it's okay to call me dad. But they don't do that at all anymore. Just the other day a girl asked if they were mine I said yes then when then started calling me Neil she was like "Why do they call you Neil". Then I had to tell her so it didn't seem weird. I'm I looking too much into this or what?

[hear_my_name]

well their real father is just jealous becuase they are givin u so much more attention then him.. i believe that he could be puttin it into their heads and boys will always listen to what their father says.. ask them y ... i mean it wouldnt hurt would it.. it seems that u have great conversations with them already.. if ur curious.. then go for it

[the sun the sea]

They used to correct themselves and I would say it's okay to call me dad. But they don't do that at all anymore.

well, if i was in your situation, i'd probably tell them to call me whatever they're comfortable with.

my guess is that if you show them that you're an easy going guy who doesn't pressure on them to pick a daddy, they'll end up respecting you more for that.

they'll eventually lose a little respect for their "real" father that's trying to brianwash them by belittling you..

if the kids are as smart as you say they are, they'll pick up on who really acts like the "real" father and end up calling you dad.

not because you'd like them to, but because they want to.

[Neo]

if the kids are as smart as you say they are, they'll pick up on who really acts like the "real" father and end up calling you dad.

Marie and were talking to TYler way before we even got married and asked. "How do like Neil as daddy". He said" He the best dad, he lays with, plays with, takes us to the pool, etc. My dad never let's us go to the park or the pool. We just go to theme parks and watch TV." He never spends QUALITY TIME with them. He entertains them. By taking them to the themes parks and movies. But there's isn't any discussion or dialog between them I think. That's what kids really need. Talk with and give them direction and advice. Shoot I'd rather hang out with these boys than my freinds they're hilarious. Out dog Duncan comes up and licks the little one's face (Tanner) and Tyler says. "Don't let him lick you, now you have penis all over your face because Duncan licks his penis. That's nothing. They have me in stitches all the time.

Very good advice The Sun and the Sea thank you :wink: