end of a mini bender, cant sleep

[Life on Other Planets AKA Johns]

Re: end of a mini bender, cant sleep

^^^ yeah i know its crap and thats why i said with girls its different cause they are more likely to play mind games and be hung over things than most guys and thats why i said if it was the other way round it would not matter cause guys tend to get things more out in the open. But thats just my theroy i could be wrong and prob most likley are but i just though i would give the young man some advice

[lilsensa]

Re: end of a mini bender, cant sleep

the wait for three days thing is tricky....because while you are waiting, some other slob is getting his knob bobbed....then you lose.............hahaha

[Hambrecht]

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[ShawnD64]

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yes i am gei haha

she called. we are going out sat night. she has to take the GRE's on saturday, we are going out after....
thanks guys, i was worried over nothing (she was embarrased over being foward w/ me whilst a tad drunk haha)

[FM]

Re: end of a mini bender, cant sleep

if that's just a tad, get her full-blown drunk then

[feather]

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Well done mate, hope it works out.

[alexfish333]

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Let me holler one thing,

"Always leave 'em wanting more"

No matter what she says or does in the first couple weeks to make you think you can bare your "really excited that things are going well because you've been in a bit of a dry spell soul" DON'T

There's nothing not correct with this logic-she will know you are a nice person from the natural, somewhat restrained you. No girl wants someone who may even have an inkling of needing her-ESP at first
If she does, then there is baggage ahead and it's a good time to go to Germany

[ShawnD64]

Re: end of a mini bender, cant sleep

Let me holler one thing,

"Always leave 'em wanting more"

No matter what she says or does in the first couple weeks to make you think you can bare your "really excited that things are going well because you've been in a bit of a dry spell soul" DON'T

There's nothing not correct with this logic-she will know you are a nice person from the natural, somewhat restrained you. No girl wants someone who may even have an inkling of needing her-ESP at first
If she does, then there is baggage ahead and it's a good time to go to Germany

well i am not the faggy type making her mix cds and sending flowers after 2 weeks. it will take a while before i spill my guts... so i am safe there. i was just concerned about fucking up the early stages cause i dont usually come at it from this angle. i just want enough of a connection where shes not gone when i return!
thanks for the help guys/girl(DancingQueen)

[Life on Other Planets AKA Johns]

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Congrats mate.. Like i said we want details no matter how dirty

[Yao]

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Good thing Shawn, just go and have a good night when you go with her - expect nothing, maybe end up with a lot ;-). Still dealing with some mindfucking chick here, and it never gets any easier (she says she can't have a relationship and shit, but when I keep quiet for too long and ignore her she comes running after me...).

And fuck the 3 day rule: what is good is good. Good thing you sent her the message when you really felt like doing it!

[Miguel]

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where are u gonna take her ? get-to-know-eachother dinner or cocktails at a nice lounge?

[Yao]

Re: end of a mini bender, cant sleep

Start off with something calm, loungy and classy if you can...

[ShawnD64]

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where are u gonna take her ? get-to-know-eachother dinner or cocktails at a nice lounge?

dunno? she lives like 20mins from the city so i was going to offer to meet her near her place and leave it up to her, so she wouldnt have to drive. but she did mention how she misses being in the city cause she likes going out downtown. so i havent decided yet. if it were the city i was thinking dinner.... but some drinks in a lounge scenario could be money... i will think about it

[DIDI]

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^^^ Third that!!! This was in reference to ignoring the third day thing but the thread got ahead of me and I can't seem to delete the post.

[feather]

Re: end of a mini bender, cant sleep

Have one or two drinks to loosen up and get it going, have dinner (or not), and more drinks!