Falling Apart :(

[AntonyM]

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A trip does sound in order at least for the summer. Find one place you have always wanted to go to, then book travel and leave.
Digging into work just makes you nervous and thin. Some new surroundings might be a way to get yourself centered, maybe carry a journal write some stuff down, whatever comes to mind.

[hypoluxxa]

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Sorry to hear that you’re going through such a difficult time right now; however I can tell you from personal experience that things will get much better. I don’t mean to sound like a cliché, or a greeting card, and I know that’s the last thing you’re probably feeling. The days will get easier little by little. You’ll always think about him at first, but as time goes on the pain will ease. I dated someone for 10 years, and it didn’t work out. It was horrible at first; thinking that I wouldn’t be with her, but as time went on, and I started doing whatever I loved doing… the pain started to go away. When that happened I was more perceptive about the people that were around me. I met new friends, and eventually I even met my wife. It takes time; just believe me when I tell you it will get better.

[DancingQueen]

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Well, last night at 7pm, he officially left We spent a few hours together before he went, and it was the hardest thing saying good-bye to him.

He told me how sorry he was, how much he is going to miss me, that he isn't sure what the future holds for us, and that he still loves me.....my head is spinning a mile a minute right now while my heart is breaking

I asked him before he left to write me a letter explaining how he truly felt and what he really wanted, etc. I thought maybe in an email he may be able to tell me the truth a little easier...who knows if I will even ever get one, but he said he would.

Thanks again everyone for your kind words and offers of support. It really makes a difference when I come in here and read your posts and hear I am not as alone as I feel.

[spyros]

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i must agree last night must had been very hard for you...
well the best thing would had been never these things happened.but since they happened is not much we can do about them.sometimes its very hard to change someone elses decision no matter how right we are and how hard we try! but who knows, maybe in a few months when he change his mind and he wants to came back you will be the one who will say the "no"!

[threehills]

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At least now you can ride in an x-wing

[DancingQueen]

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^^^Are you sure you don't have a time machine instead so I can go back in time and fix things so he doesn't leave?!

[DancingQueen]

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Just out of curiosity even if he did come back would you take him back??? I mean I know you love him and all but damn thats a lot of emotional shit to go through. Then to have him come back as if nothing happened. If it were me and my gf did that to me I don't know if I would be so quick to take her back.
Either way i'm sure you'll do the right thing. Keep your head up and be strong. it sucks right now but as everyone else mentioned before it'll get better.

You bring up a good question, but I don't think I can answer that right now....if I did, it would be the biggest yes imaginable...I wouldn't even think twice about it.

[simonr]

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Hang in there .. we're all rooting that things work out for you.

[RiseandShine]

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Hey there, nothing much to add to all the brilliant stuff
hang in there and see what comes next

[tiddles]

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sorry, take it easy DQ.
if it makes you feel better, it could be worse. my girly just left me for some smelly french guy. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr angry angry angry

[DIDI]

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^^ Yep that would worse!

[DancingQueen]

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Well I just tried 4 times to go to work and finally gave up....this is way harder then I ever imagined. I still can't believe all of this is happening and that he just left me behind

[chanty]

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Aww...Karen, you should take a few days off work and go and stay with a friend. Being around other people will help alot, rather than being by yourself at home all day and thinking....
Again, big hugs for you sweetie!!

[Dhar_2]

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sorry, take it easy DQ.
if it makes you feel better, it could be worse. my girly just left me for some smelly french guy. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr angry angry angry

u r joking!!!!

a frenchie!!!

u should be ashamed!!!

want me to drive over and we can kick his ass!!???

[Kamal]

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oh boy, a gujju + (half caucasian & oriental if I remember tiddles ethnicity right) dude bash up a french fry..... can only imagine that headline