Kids

[Homegrove]

What do you lot think about a person who doesn't want to have any, ever?

I'm now 30 and have started to wonder if I'm ever going to change my mind. I just think I'm way too selfish for them and haven't felt any biological urges to spread my seed (so to speak). For a guy it's of course easier to get them older but there's also little sense in getting your first kid when you're fucking 50.

[88Mariner]

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i think the some of the greatest deprivations of liberty has been because of the argument, "for the children". so fuck 'em.

actually. come to think of it, thank you for not having any. That's one less jackass teen in this world. one less driver on the road. one more open parking spot close to the mall. ad nauseaum.

we should all thank you for not having children.

[Homegrove]

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One less fucked up kid deffo.

[Steve Graham]

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What do you lot think about a person who doesn't want to have any, ever?

I'm now 30 and have started to wonder if I'm ever going to change my mind. I just think I'm way too selfish for them and haven't felt any biological urges to spread my seed (so to speak). For a guy it's of course easier to get them older but there's also little sense in getting your first kid when you're fucking 50.

I feel the same mate.. There is just so much I want to do especially travelling, having children would be selfish.. and I definitely dont want to start a family when I am 50 odd years old and have my kid getting out of high school when I am almost 70.. if i make it to 70, lol

[day_for_night]

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ya i don't really want 'em either. though people say you meet the right girl...

[Huggie Smiles]

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[Dhar_2]

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i dont want them!!

people keep preaching at me about how's it your own flesh and blood, that it loves u selflessly, that your life and priorities change, blah, blah.

i'm not ready. i cant even look after myself, let alone another small human being. maybe in time, the right place, time and girl.

but for now. no chance!!!

now where did i leave those spray on condoms???!!!

[feather]

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My father and I have something like a 50-yr gap between us, so I always wanted to be a young father who grows old with his kid. But I'm turning 32 this year with none of that prospect on the horizon. But I'm not bothered by it at all, these things come and happen in its own time. And in the mean time, I have heaps of other shit to do with myself.

That said, I DO HATE OTHER PEOPLE'S KIDS. I'm sure I'll change my mind when I have my own

[the sun the sea]

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it's pretty simple, if you're not ready to put someone else's needs in front of your, then don't have kids.

[Dhar_2]

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My father and I have something like a 50-yr gap between us, so I always wanted to be a young father who grows old with his kid. But I'm turning 32 this year with none of that prospect on the horizon. But I'm not bothered by it at all, these things come and happen in its own time. And in the mean time, I have heaps of other shit to do with myself.

That said, I DO HATE OTHER PEOPLE'S KIDS. I'm sure I'll change my mind when I have my own

i cant see any woman wanting your seed for their kids!

[feather]

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They will once they see the alternative, ie. you.

[lilsensa]

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Boomshanka!!

[Kamal]

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I guess I'm the only one who would be saying I love kids..... I love my nephew to death..... I just melt when I'm with him, the world stops. I could care less what I do, I just wanna carry him and walk around my brother in laws house, talking to him, showing him stuff, making him laugh.

[Steve Graham]

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yeah, but thats not your kid, there's a difference..the difference being, your able to hand him back to his parents and you can go home and do what you want! lol

not wanting to have kids isnt the same as not liking/loving kids.. I adore my neices, and friends of mine that have kids, I have fun with them

[Kamal]

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yeah, but thats not your kid, there's a difference..the difference being, your able to hand him back to his parents and you can go home and do what you want! lol

not wanting to have kids isnt the same as not liking/loving kids.. I adore my neices, and friends of mine that have kids, I have fun with them

ok, I'll reclarify, I want my own as well