Not for a day.. for life this time

[MJ]

I`m gonna be a real dad!

This has come as a MASSIVE shock to me as it was not planned at all. I`ve just found out that the mrs is 13 weeks and 1 day pregnant. I can`t tell you how I feel right now cos to be honest i don`t know myself. I know I should be over the moon but all I feel is numb.

I`ts gonna take me some time to come to terms with this.

[skahound]

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Congrats MJ!

[hulkhuss]

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hey congrats mj!
my daughter will be born in 1-3wks

[skahound]

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Damn! Haven't you people ever heard of the sponge?

[Hos]

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another MJ

and she told me you were shooting blanks

[MusicJatt]

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congrats

[Weizy]

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congratulations MJ!

[picklemonkey]

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If you have a daughter and don't name her Stella, I'll be veeeery veeery verry disappointed in you. congrats dude

[palmer]

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whoops.




congrats man ... all the best

[FM]

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it hits you differently when it isn't planned or exppected...I almost went that route once... :?

What can ya do but enjoy it now...it'll make you a better person in the end...

Just don't let them play with the tables

[Michael Lanning]

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I know that numb feeling you're talking about. At the time my instrument of choice was guitar (pre-EDM phase of my life)... and when I heard the news that she was pregnant, my first words were, "shit, I've gotta go play my guitar". That was the only thing I could think of. I just wanted my child to know me for what I am... a musician following my dreams. Not what I had become with my ex.

Having a baby totally changed my life. It's been one of the greatest things ever. I was able to get out of that relationship, and follow what I truly want this lifetime... with determination. I think my inspiration was reborn with my daughter. Having a child will teach you levels of love that you never knew existed... whether you think you're ready for it or not.

good luck man, and yes, a congrats are in order.

[asdf_admin]

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Congrats MJ. You will be a great Father.

[Kinetic]

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I`m gonna be a real dad!

This has come as a MASSIVE shock to me as it was not planned at all. I`ve just found out that the mrs is 13 weeks and 1 day pregnant. I can`t tell you how I feel right now cos to be honest i don`t know myself. I know I should be over the moon but all I feel is numb.

I`ts gonna take me some time to come to terms with this.

1st of all, huge congrats, MJ!

Second of all, I totally understand your reaction, when my g/f told me she was pregnant I was like "ok, cool, are you sure about that?".

I mean, if it?s your 1st, what the fuck can a guy do? We just have NO idea of what it?s like.

But today, like Michael said, I?ve found stuff inside that I didn?t even know was there. It?s a whole new pespective on life you?re getting, man.

[Kobe]

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All kidding aside, congratulations.

[Garrick]

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congrats MJ... it'll become clear eventually that this is a good thing

you gotta grow up sometime! i am sure the baby should bring you lots of happiness.